Tough Love......

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Tough Love vs. Spanking - Good Argument




Most of the American, English and Italian population'sthink it improper to spank children, so I have tried other methods to control my godkids when they have one of 'those moments.'

One that I found effective is for me to just take the child for a car ride and talk.




Some say it's the vibration from the car, others say it's the time a way from any distractions such as TV, Video Games, Computer, IPod, etc.




Either way, my godkids usually calm down and stop misbehaving after our car ride together. Eye to eye contact helps a lot too.




I've included a photo below of one of my sessions with my godson, in case you would like to use the technique.

Sincerely,

Niki

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Cute. :biggrin1:

Spare the rod and spoil the child. There is a huge difference between a swat on the butt with an open hand and beating a child senseless. I have no problem with a child who is occassionally spanked. However, if thats the only thing a parent does as discipline then the parent has a problem, not the child.
 

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Cute. :biggrin1:

Spare the rod and spoil the child. There is a huge difference between a swat on the butt with an open hand and beating a child senseless. I have no problem with a child who is occassionally spanked. However, if thats the only thing a parent does as discipline then the parent has a problem, not the child.


I agree.........