This is exactly what I was about to say. Some guy in the corner of the locker room does his "towel dance" to get changed, or showers with his shorts/undies/swim trunks on and so what--what's it to you? He has a sense of shame--what do you expect? We were founded by religious zealots 400 years ago and we are still trying to recover from it. Kudos to you for your progress, but leave the towel dancers alone. They're not bothering anyone.
You had me up to the 400 years ago thing. Up until the mid-1970's you rarely, if ever, would have seen a man attempt any type of obvious coverup in a locker room. It seems to be generational. Use to be we were required to swim nude at the YMCA, skinny dipping with buddies at the quarry or local pond in scouts or just as friends, had mandatory showers (nude) after gym class in junior & senior high school, shared dorm bathrooms with 40 other guys and then of course there was the military where, beginning with physicals, at any given time you could find upward of 100 naked soldiers, sailors, etc. in the same place.
There are hundreds of pages on the internet and elsewhere trying to explain or understand the origin of the towel dance and showering partially clothed. Some say it was the advent of bigger houses with smaller families where children had private bathrooms, other feel it is a result of the public awareness of child molesters (which have been around since the beginning of time but previously rarely spoken of in public) and there are those who "blame" it on the gay movement. But regardless of the reason it really doesn't date back to the founding of our country. Modesty was never a strong suit for men ... women yes, but not men ... up until the the last quarter of the 20th century.
And just a quick note on the posting of nude photos to the internet. It does, at least to me, seem ironic that those who don't wish to been seem naked in a locker room or other situation where nudity would seem logical and appropriate, are willing to post such explicit photos of themselves on the internet. Many of these photos are full body/face shots that are easily identifiable but more importantly is that once they are out there they begin to appear in places other than the location of the original post - and believe me they are subject to way more crude comments (positive & negative) then you would ever be subjected to in a locker room. I have a friend who just discovered, via the police, that 3 nude photos of his college age son were being used for an escort service. The photos had originally been text'd to a girlfriend who then shared them with several of her friends thus resulting in them ending up somewhere on the internet.
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