"What toys would you guys recommend?"
If you are just starting out and are not yet used to getting anything in your butt, you may do well to locate a "starter set" of butt plugs. These usually come in a set of three, starting at rather small and getting you up to "average penis size" in small increments.
Here's an example, this from
AdamMale.com:
The sizes are:
- Small 4" Insertion; 1" Width (3.14" circ.)
- Medium 4.5" Insertion; 1 1⁄2" Width (4.7" circ.)
- Large 5.5" Insertion; 2" Width (6.28" circ.)
Lots of lube, plenty of time uninterrupted and a relaxed mood will get you used to these sizes. Remember that the medium size toy is the width of the "average" dick.
From there, you can start looking at whatever size toys you wish to use as you'll be comfortable with the
idea of putting things up there and know how to relax your hole before sex (doing some play with the plugs right before going to real cock will be both helpful and fun).
"And what is your favorite toy?"
I have many toys that I play with and several that are considered "favourites".
Here is my collection from several months back now - there have been several additions since.
My three go-to's are, from the bottom:
- Red Boy (large) plug - 2nd up, left side, 2.5" thick, 4.5" insertable
- SquarePeg Short Worm (copper colour) 2" thick, 11" long
- A silicone dildo - can't recall the brand (above the Red Boy), 2" thick, 7.5" insertable
But in all honesty, I will switch out to several of the other toys as the mood strikes.