Ok, maybe this sounds naive, but I'm an older bi guy, recently divorced, thinking about having an experience or even relationship with a guy, bi or gay. I've never given a guy oral, yet as a guy I certainly know what feels good. I'd actually like to practice on a guy. Really get good at it. Do you think I would get any takers, being older (but in good shape and handsome at 58) and not particularly hung? Where would I start to look?