Trans-attracted men: why is post-op a deal-breaker to you?

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To those of you attracted to trans women:
Why do the vast majority prefer pre-op?
After SRS I often got to hear that it was a pity that I was post-op. But why?
Getting SRS made me more of a woman, yet less attractive to those into trans women.
While trans-attracted men always claim to be straight.
If you are straight, why then does a vagina on a trans girl bother you?
Help me understand.
 

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To those of you attracted to trans women:
Why do the vast majority prefer pre-op?
After SRS I often got to hear that it was a pity that I was post-op. But why?
Getting SRS made me more of a woman, yet less attractive to those into trans women.
While trans-attracted men always claim to be straight.
If you are straight, why then does a vagina on a trans girl bother you?
Help me understand.
Unfortunately where I live I haven’t met any trans women really. When cruising reddit I prefer very small sized trans women. In all honesty, post op is rare (or seems to be). If you didn’t live an ocean away it wouldn’t un pique my interest;)
 
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My personal theory is that straight men are in one of two camps, either they are vocally anti-men and are repulsed by penises and hate body hair ((as an aside, I hate these men and they may as well be women imo)) or they are genuinely attracted to femininity, but like dicks. Why? I think they themselves having a penis has something to do with the mixed feelings. They like women, but also don't mind dicks since they have one and like it (unlike the first group who has a weird disgust of penises despite they themselves having one -- maybe theirs is ugly-looking or something? that's sometimes the case).
 

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Hi I am lets say 90% straight but I am attracted more no offense to pre op trans women to me it is the best of both worlds but i would have to say i am bisexual but have never been with a guy or a trans person.I also like female bodybuilders and male bodybuilders all my life. Now if i met a trans lady who had surgery if i was attracted to her it would be no problem.
 

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Hi I am lets say 90% straight but I am attracted more no offense to pre op trans women to me it is the best of both worlds but i would have to say i am bisexual but have never been with a guy or a trans person.I also like female bodybuilders and male bodybuilders all my life. Now if i met a trans lady who had surgery if i was attracted to her it would be no problem.
If you never been with a guy how do you know your bi
 

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To those of you attracted to trans women:
Why do the vast majority prefer pre-op?
After SRS I often got to hear that it was a pity that I was post-op. But why?
Getting SRS made me more of a woman, yet less attractive to those into trans women.
While trans-attracted men always claim to be straight.
If you are straight, why then does a vagina on a trans girl bother you?
Help me understand.
cause they’re not straight lol
every « straight » guy that hit on me ended up ignoring all of my dysphoria because they just wanted me to fuck them, which is a huge turn off for me
that’s why i prefer talking to bi guys, cause they (usually) don’t see me as a fetish and don’t want to experiment with me. they understand my limits and are ok with that.
honestly it took me a while to understand that all types of attention are not good attentions, for some you’re just a fetish they will try to hide once they’re done with you
 

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To those of you attracted to trans women:
Why do the vast majority prefer pre-op?
After SRS I often got to hear that it was a pity that I was post-op. But why?
Getting SRS made me more of a woman, yet less attractive to those into trans women.
While trans-attracted men always claim to be straight.
If you are straight, why then does a vagina on a trans girl bother you?
Help me understand.
I want a woman with a cock. I don’t try to label it as gay/straight/bi and I don’t think about it as I don’t care. All I know is I like it. :p
 

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I want a woman with a cock. I don’t try to label it as gay/straight/bi and I don’t think about it as I don’t care. All I know is I like it. :p
Why can people accept the fact that as we age our tastes change !!! I have had the desire to have a relationship with a petit , beautiful pre-op Trans woman for years but never acted on it - more fool me - Just the sight of such a beauty with a heavy suckable penis arouses me !!!! I don't put myself in any category I simply listen to what my cock is telling me !
 

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Why can people accept the fact that as we age our tastes change !!! I have had the desire to have a relationship with a petit , beautiful pre-op Trans woman for years but never acted on it - more fool me - Just the sight of such a beauty with a heavy suckable penis arouses me !!!! I don't put myself in any category I simply listen to what my cock is telling me !
I don't think people care about what you like as long it's consent. What people don't like when you lie and hide especially in marriages
 

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I know quite a few very gorgeous trans women that I would be willing to bet could fool at least 90% of all men introduced to them however less than a handful have gone the SRS route. I've asked most of them about SRS and most of them tell me that it's not a "necessity" and that they're very happy with their equipment down there. Surprisingly, they don't identify being entirely feminine with having a vagina so the SRS route doesn't even come into the picture. Also, most of them tell me that the men that they get with are expecting to see a penis down there. The ones that have gone thru with SRS have told me that it was a "final" step to their journey and it "completed" them. Lastly, some of them are simply afraid of the complications and adverse outcome of the surgery itself.


Getting SRS made me more of a woman, yet less attractive to those into trans women.

Try to understand that men whom are attracted or want a trans women (whether for real or as a fetish) is looking for a "trans women". This means they're expecting feminine features and a penis. If they wanted a "woman", there's plenty of cis women to go around. I think this is the underlying misconception that needs to be said. The "more of a woman you become", the less of a trans woman you become, and therefore knock yourself out of the trans women pool that these men are attracted to or interested in.

I think SRS should be about you wanting what makes you feel whole than what it takes to attract a partner.

Allow me to close with the fact that ALL of my girlfriends whom are trans are entirely feminine and more so than most of my cis girlfriends. It's very strange when I'm around them because I do enjoy their company and the femininity that they exude. We are touchy and affectionate, and I don't mind it at all. It never goes beyond that because they're aware I won't cross that line but they do try and it's fun banter.

Hope this helps.
 

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My personal theory is that straight men are in one of two camps, either they are vocally anti-men and are repulsed by penises and hate body hair ((as an aside, I hate these men and they may as well be women imo)) or they are genuinely attracted to femininity, but like dicks. Why? I think they themselves having a penis has something to do with the mixed feelings. They like women, but also don't mind dicks since they have one and like it (unlike the first group who has a weird disgust of penises despite they themselves having one -- maybe theirs is ugly-looking or something? that's sometimes the case).
I think I agree, I'm attracted to femininity, i.e. smooth skin, curves, boobs, beautiful face etc, etc and I love pussy, but when I see all the same features on a woman who has a cock, then I like her, and I like her cock. But the same cock on a guy, nope, just doesn't do anything. When you say you like trans women some people get upset and argue you must me secretly gay or bisexual and just denying it (like they know you mind better than you do).
As I said I love vaginas, it's my favourite part of a woman, I can't have sex with a woman without licking her pussy, but if I see a female to male trans, I'm not attracted to it at all, grosses me out, just like a man with a cock does.
My hypothesis is; perhaps we just like penises and vaginas, just in our genes. Also in our genes is if we like men or women, just happens women come with a vagina, so when they come with a penis.... why not
 

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I think I agree, I'm attracted to femininity, i.e. smooth skin, curves, boobs, beautiful face etc, etc and I love pussy, but when I see all the same features on a woman who has a cock, then I like her, and I like her cock. But the same cock on a guy, nope, just doesn't do anything. When you say you like trans women some people get upset and argue you must me secretly gay or bisexual and just denying it (like they know you mind better than you do).
As I said I love vaginas, it's my favourite part of a woman, I can't have sex with a woman without licking her pussy, but if I see a female to male trans, I'm not attracted to it at all, grosses me out, just like a man with a cock does.
My hypothesis is; perhaps we just like penises and vaginas, just in our genes. Also in our genes is if we like men or women, just happens women come with a vagina, so when they come with a penis.... why not
And the best part of it is that having a cock themselves , they know what it takes to pleasure one perfectly well ;)
 

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I love the feminine form. Beautiful face,tits and ass. Plus legs. If I wanted a trans girl with a vagina I'd just go after a cis girl. Trans girls offer more .... A cock and balls to play with. Butt holes are just as good as vaginas to fuck, they have tits,a mouth, cocks to suck or be fucked with balls and a mouth. Extra equipment more to enjoy. Plus they have better attitudes and are more enthusiastic .
 
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Because the whole nature of a trans woman is that she is the "other" sex, and when passable they become fantastical almost like a unicorn. A rare beauty, perfect how they were born. But when realignment surgery comes into play, it completely ruins how they are special. God made them in their form to be appreciated, but when one takes that for granted and (brutally) deforms themselves to "fit" into the "norm", it's like a defilement of beauty to fit some bs standard that they will never fit. A surgical implanted vagina is grotesque, and besides the look, just to realize that this person threw away if not all of their sexual pleasure, just to fit into a societal "norm" is one of the greatest wastes. Ladies! Don't cut it off! You're a woman nevertheless, don't force change! Love yourself! Because you will find "normal" men that love you the way you are.