Ehem, this is a very strange subject. Some of my friends are gay, of course online friends...... everyday I learn more and more about them and due to my confusion regarding my sexuality, usually I want to know how they discovered that they are gay, since I wonder if it's a similar situation as mine. Well somehow two of them claim to have been straight (or bi) but turned gay after a tragic traumatic event. I don't want to type exactly what these events were for them, since I feel as if I was revealing private matter here, even if I'm not writing who they are. But basicly, I'm quite surprised... sure I never had any things like that happen to me, so I don't know, but I feel sorry for them kinda.... giving up on women because of events like that. OK, sure, being gay is ok and all, but i feel as if.... fate forced them too..... I guess they are comfortable with being gay now........ sigh... :frown1: Anyways, did you ever hear of such things? Of people having things like this happen to them ?