This is something that I forgot it exists...... a triangle... it's (often) a monogamous ... or should I rather call it duogamous ... relationship where there are 3 partners.. instead of two like in the classical concept... So yeah law in most places doesn't allow such a relationship, but we're not talking about marriage here, it's a normal love relationship.
I lately discovered that a person I know (not so close to call him a friend) has a relationship with 2 other guys. And he's not a slutty person, he lived all these years with one partner with whom he had a great relationship, true love! But now he has a new partner and the old partner shares the feelings for him too, so now they are 3.
At first, I felt it was wrong, but then after deeply thinking about it, I discovered how beautiful this can be. It's not an open relationship AT ALL. It's like monogamy, expect with 3 instead of 2. And come on, it's already hard to find one person to truly love.... and in a normal relationship... finding 2 people you love can mean the end of love with both! So isn't the fact all these 3 people truly love each other something beautiful?
I know I sound strange, perhaps I'm just so excited cause I thought that now that I accept that I could perhaps fall in love with a guy ... well why not a triangle? With a guy and a girl... No open relationship, be satisfied with both of my partners of both genders.
Then again I suppose the chances for such a relationship to work or even start are so small, that I'd have better chances finding a woman born as a hermaphrodite with a fully developed large penis........ which I guess would be fun too heh
But anyways, what are your thoughts about this type of relationships? I wrote this whole thread cause I realized it's not so bad after all and if it works then it's wonderful!
I lately discovered that a person I know (not so close to call him a friend) has a relationship with 2 other guys. And he's not a slutty person, he lived all these years with one partner with whom he had a great relationship, true love! But now he has a new partner and the old partner shares the feelings for him too, so now they are 3.
At first, I felt it was wrong, but then after deeply thinking about it, I discovered how beautiful this can be. It's not an open relationship AT ALL. It's like monogamy, expect with 3 instead of 2. And come on, it's already hard to find one person to truly love.... and in a normal relationship... finding 2 people you love can mean the end of love with both! So isn't the fact all these 3 people truly love each other something beautiful?
I know I sound strange, perhaps I'm just so excited cause I thought that now that I accept that I could perhaps fall in love with a guy ... well why not a triangle? With a guy and a girl... No open relationship, be satisfied with both of my partners of both genders.
Then again I suppose the chances for such a relationship to work or even start are so small, that I'd have better chances finding a woman born as a hermaphrodite with a fully developed large penis........ which I guess would be fun too heh
But anyways, what are your thoughts about this type of relationships? I wrote this whole thread cause I realized it's not so bad after all and if it works then it's wonderful!