I wish my current boyfriend's mother would get some damn' cajones and bring her concerns to me like that woman did to you. Instead, she tells him that women my age (just four years older than he) look for promising young men like him who are naive, with money in the bank and a nice car and secure careers to trap with a baby. I wish she would stop telling him this shit, and start telling me. She is scared of losing her baby boy. He could be 50, it doesn't matter. Mommy does not want to be replaced or worse yet bumped down a spot in his heart. You haven't mentioned his dad. Where is he? Is she telling him this because she trick fucked some guy and that's how he came to be? That is quite often the case.
I don't normally quote scripture, but isn't there a verse in the King James Version about the sins of the father being revisited upon the son.
When I first heard it, I was so shocked! I was hurt. I mean, she doesn't even know me yet. Now I'm just angry. I get angry every time they talk becasue she always has something slick to say. Been there done that, got the t-shirt. I know the only reason he was telling me about it is because it hurts his feelings too. He loves me, and doesn't want anyone to say bad things about me. I'm glad he tells me, becasue she is sweet as pie to my face. He has an unnatural fear of impregnating women. His mother must be batshit nuts. Most likely!
Anyway, the reason sane women have to put up with this garbage is because there are fucktards out there who pull that shit daily.
Ladies can't we all just agree not to be skanky bitches? KThanks.
AMEN Sistah!!