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It reminds me of the subplot of AN OFFICER & A GENTLEMAN where Richad Gere's character had been in a town where trick fucking navy guys was tradition by the local women.

Richard Gere in that uniform!!:smile: When I was younger that film made me sooo horny, I loved him so much........now I think he's a right pratt!
 

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"Who's afraid of Virginia Wolf", anyone? It sure worked out for the couple in that play.

It's just an incredibly childish way to get what you want. And you won't even get it.

If you do that to keep a relationship going, I would say it's like tapdancing in a quicksand pit to stay alive.
 

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I've known of about two out of the three cases you've described there, TK. In particular, the 3rd actually that a friend of mine hooked up with. She already had two kids from different kids, and was working on his his two. She was, and I think she still is a welfare mommy. they tried setting me up with her sister, but turns out she was already preggers from her uh, "separated" husband.

Actually yes she is a welfare mom too.... my friend Brandon that I talk so much about... thinks that she is living the ideal "relaxed" lifestyle. I just shake my head... I cannot for the life of me imagine how scraping by on money that you didn't earn could be relaxing. Especially since it doesn't leave you all that much money to do anything with.
 

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No, but I would recommend you send your friend this. She may think twice about what she's doing.

I want to shake this guy's hand!

Why any woman thinks that trick fucking any guy will get them in to their lives permanently is absurd. Some girls have to be pretty desperate to get to this point! Sad and desperate, yes they're attractive qualities....
 

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What happened to the good old days when a trick fuck involved a trapeze, a couple of midgets, and a few bottles of wine?

Life is getting progressively more complicated.
 

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Part II of that story is that the guy who's sister felt the need to check me out and, "tell me the deal." Well I broke up with him because he was an alcoholic, and crazy! When I said I wanted to take a break, he started hiding my birth control pills and telling me how cute I would look pregnant . . . at 19.5!! He thought if I got pregnant I wouldn't leave him. HA! :biggrin1: I dumped him on Pearl Harbor Day 1986 at the Ocean County Mall.

I wish my current boyfriend's mother would get some damn' cajones and bring her concerns to me like that woman did to you. Instead, she tells him that women my age (just four years older than he) look for promising young men like him who are naive, with money in the bank and a nice car and secure careers to trap with a baby. I wish she would stop telling him this shit, and start telling me. She is scared of losing her baby boy. He could be 50, it doesn't matter. Mommy does not want to be replaced or worse yet bumped down a spot in his heart. You haven't mentioned his dad. Where is he? Is she telling him this because she trick fucked some guy and that's how he came to be? That is quite often the case.

I don't normally quote scripture, but isn't there a verse in the King James Version about the sins of the father being revisited upon the son.
When I first heard it, I was so shocked! I was hurt. I mean, she doesn't even know me yet. Now I'm just angry. I get angry every time they talk becasue she always has something slick to say. Been there done that, got the t-shirt. I know the only reason he was telling me about it is because it hurts his feelings too. He loves me, and doesn't want anyone to say bad things about me. I'm glad he tells me, becasue she is sweet as pie to my face. He has an unnatural fear of impregnating women. His mother must be batshit nuts. Most likely!

Anyway, the reason sane women have to put up with this garbage is because there are fucktards out there who pull that shit daily.

Ladies can't we all just agree not to be skanky bitches? KThanks.

AMEN Sistah!!
 

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What happened to the good old days when a trick fuck involved a trapeze, a couple of midgets, and a few bottles of wine?

Life is getting progressively more complicated.
haha no kidding.

but seriously, why would anyone want to trap someone? I mean, isn't it just trapping yourself in a shitty relationship with no real love? How could anyone even think that idea would work? Even if he did stay, it would just be out of guilt. People are so strange. oh, and stupid
 
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One thing that has not been mentioned. The woman may be a cunt (hate that word) and the guy may (or may not) be dumb for finding himself in this situation....

Bbut what about the innocent life that's brought into this world to fuck with the guy and "trap" him???
 

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Actually yes she is a welfare mom too.... my friend Brandon that I talk so much about... thinks that she is living the ideal "relaxed" lifestyle. I just shake my head... I cannot for the life of me imagine how scraping by on money that you didn't earn could be relaxing. Especially since it doesn't leave you all that much money to do anything with.
Yeah, and for that matter, it's probably money that my taxes just shelled out of my already not-so-substantial paycheck.
Your tax dollars at work feeding the worthless.
 

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MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK, you struck a nerve.

Originally Posted by Think_Kink
Actually yes she is a welfare mom too.... my friend Brandon that I talk so much about... thinks that she is living the ideal "relaxed" lifestyle. I just shake my head... I cannot for the life of me imagine how scraping by on money that you didn't earn could be relaxing. Especially since it doesn't leave you all that much money to do anything with.

Yeah, and for that matter, it's probably money that my taxes just shelled out of my already not-so-substantial paycheck. Your tax dollars at work feeding the worthless.

Excuse me! WTF!?!?! I am so angry at you for this attitude I can’t see straight. First off, I am NOT WORTHLESS!

I am 41 years old. I am a single Black Woman, no children, and I have been on general assistance since February 2007. This is what was formerly known as Welfare in the United States. I was forced into this existence due to a physical disability which literally knocked me on my ass a year ago last week.

For most of my adult life I worked two, sometimes three jobs. I went back to school at age 25 to earn my BA. I had so many part-time jobs, while going to college full-time my Trinidadian roomie thought I was Jamaican. For those of you not in the United States, Jamaican immigrants have a reputation here for being extremely hard working.

It is beyond embarrassing and humiliating for someone like me who is used to paying her own way and earning her own keep to have to live like this. The first time I had to use the food stamps, I was a nervous wreck. I took the bus to a supermarket, 2 towns away, and when I got home I cried. My best friend since high school was there as I put away my groceries; and she actually had the audacity to say, “It’s nice to see my tax dollars at work.” I started to kick her stupid, fat ass out. How dare her and how dare you!!! Actually, since I have worked at over 3 dozen jobs, since I was 12. Technically, the money I am spending is money I have earned and paid into the system.

Did I mention I have three degrees? Prior to this Meniere’s disease thing I was earning a little over $70,000 a year. That’s barely pocket change to many of you, I know; but it allowed me to live comfortably. I took vacations, saw concerts, gave parties, and went to the ballet. I flew into Atlanta for one night to see Bruce Springsteen on his Devils and Dust tour; I stayed at the Crowne Plaza. I had a nice life. :smile:

The worst sin in America isn’t murder, its poverty. :mad: When you are poor you no longer have the right to an opinion or to share oxygen with those of higher socio-economic status. You literally lose the inalienable rights provided in the constitution.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel. I received a letter from my old job at the end of April and if I pass my physical on 5/17/07 I can return to work immediately. I can’t wait to be a self-sufficient, productive member of society again.

Unfortunately, I am not an anomaly. There are many people in this country for whom existing on General Assistance is not the be all and end all you seem to think it is. We were not reared in the system. We do not spend the meager money allotted us monthly on lobster tails and crystal meth or whatever it is people like you, think people on Welfare do. I call it an existence; I refuse to call it living because it’s not. I know what living is and trust me this ain’t it.


I am NOT WORTHLESS!

njqt466

PS - I used to be able to give to charity, now I am charity and it sucks!
 

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I told my 15 year old son recently. When you have sex with a woman without a condom on, you are saying to her " I am ok with having a child with you, and want to see you often over the next 18 years"

Dont want babies, wear a condom, don't want STD's wear a condom, take control of your own destiny and never take people you just met on face value.

Honey
 

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Is it a biological urge for women to have babies? Is is that you don't feel whole until you've done so? Is it some competition thing among women that somehow barren women are looked down upon?

I just don't get it. It's another world you guys live in.
 

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Of course it is sa biological need for us to have babies....that is what we are here for ..ya know??? :)

Women aged between 18 and 28 are the most fertile...after 28 the egg quality dwindles to very very low at 40...after 40, ivf or assisted reproduction is often nessesary.

Men have no time limit or cut off date for becomeing fathers...women do.

Often when you have a career and a life, you reach 30 and suddenly you are faced with declining egg quality and no man around.


Men can have it all, women can too, but often at a much higher price.

x

Honey
 

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I just want to say that what you describe as a trick fuck is one of the worst betrayals I can think of.

I would never do it to any man, and shame on any woman who does it or is thinking of doing it.

It's tantamount to rape, IMO.

I understand that the guy is willingly having sex with the woman. But we ought to be able to have some trust in this world. A man should be able to trust that a woman who says she is protected, is indeed protected.

I wish there were some penalty for forcing a man to father a child without his knowledge, and against his will.

But I understand that logistically, it's impossible.

All we can do, as women, is be dead honest with each other. It's more than a bad decision...it's a violation of another human being, at the deepest levels.
 

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I am NOT WORTHLESS!

njqt466

PS - I used to be able to give to charity, now I am charity and it sucks!

Of course you're not and neither is my beautiful 5-yr-old daughter who would have been hungry more than once in her short life if it weren't for governmental assistance. I work 30-40 hrs per week as a waitress and go to school (college) part time. I am no idiot (graduated in the top of my class, national honor society, national merit scholar, etc), I am not lazy and I am for sure not worthless. I *could* go on full assistance, get free housing (after being on a waiting list for many months) and have school almost fully paid for, as well as food. But I'm not going to do that. I WORK and PAY MY TAXES just like everyone else, and am studying to be a doctor. Trust me, when I start making 6 figures, I'll be paying higher taxes and be able to help many more people!! It is unfortunate when people abuse the system, but I'd rather have that than to see children go hungry and homeless. I could care less about their parents... these children are completely powerless. Some people don't understand that, and that is unfortunate. My boyfriend's opinion of assistance-receivers changed dramatically when he met me. We aren't all lazy parasites... not even most of us. Those are the people that seem to get all of the press, however, so some people think they have the right to be judgemental. "Welfare" is demeaning, it's no life, and it isn't easy to get - contrary to popular belief.

Trick-fucking only ends up hurting the innocent child, and in the end it's really just another 'unplanned' pregnancy. There is NO guarantee ANY time you have sex that the woman won't get pregnant. Ever. So either keep your penis in your pants or suck it up and be a Father.
 

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MASSIVEPKGO_CHUCK, you struck a nerve.

Originally Posted by Think_Kink
Actually yes she is a welfare mom too.... my friend Brandon that I talk so much about... thinks that she is living the ideal "relaxed" lifestyle. I just shake my head... I cannot for the life of me imagine how scraping by on money that you didn't earn could be relaxing. Especially since it doesn't leave you all that much money to do anything with.

Yeah, and for that matter, it's probably money that my taxes just shelled out of my already not-so-substantial paycheck. Your tax dollars at work feeding the worthless.

Excuse me! WTF!?!?! I am so angry at you for this attitude I can’t see straight. First off, I am NOT WORTHLESS!

I am 41 years old. I am a single Black Woman, no children, and I have been on general assistance since February 2007. This is what was formerly known as Welfare in the United States. I was forced into this existence due to a physical disability which literally knocked me on my ass a year ago last week.

For most of my adult life I worked two, sometimes three jobs. I went back to school at age 25 to earn my BA. I had so many part-time jobs, while going to college full-time my Trinidadian roomie thought I was Jamaican. For those of you not in the United States, Jamaican immigrants have a reputation here for being extremely hard working.

It is beyond embarrassing and humiliating for someone like me who is used to paying her own way and earning her own keep to have to live like this. The first time I had to use the food stamps, I was a nervous wreck. I took the bus to a supermarket, 2 towns away, and when I got home I cried. My best friend since high school was there as I put away my groceries; and she actually had the audacity to say, “It’s nice to see my tax dollars at work.” I started to kick her stupid, fat ass out. How dare her and how dare you!!! Actually, since I have worked at over 3 dozen jobs, since I was 12. Technically, the money I am spending is money I have earned and paid into the system.

Did I mention I have three degrees? Prior to this Meniere’s disease thing I was earning a little over $70,000 a year. That’s barely pocket change to many of you, I know; but it allowed me to live comfortably. I took vacations, saw concerts, gave parties, and went to the ballet. I flew into Atlanta for one night to see Bruce Springsteen on his Devils and Dust tour; I stayed at the Crowne Plaza. I had a nice life. :smile:

The worst sin in America isn’t murder, its poverty. :mad: When you are poor you no longer have the right to an opinion or to share oxygen with those of higher socio-economic status. You literally lose the inalienable rights provided in the constitution.

There is a light at the end of the tunnel. I received a letter from my old job at the end of April and if I pass my physical on 5/17/07 I can return to work immediately. I can’t wait to be a self-sufficient, productive member of society again.

Unfortunately, I am not an anomaly. There are many people in this country for whom existing on General Assistance is not the be all and end all you seem to think it is. We were not reared in the system. We do not spend the meager money allotted us monthly on lobster tails and crystal meth or whatever it is people like you, think people on Welfare do. I call it an existence; I refuse to call it living because it’s not. I know what living is and trust me this ain’t it.


I am NOT WORTHLESS!

njqt466

PS - I used to be able to give to charity, now I am charity and it sucks!
NJQT, I wasn't trying to hurt anyone's feelings about that; it's just that the way my friend's GF abused it what with having 4 kids all by different fathers and making no attempt to get a job or better herself was the sole reason I didn't approve of general assistance/welfare mothers.
It wasn't meant to insult or put down anybody here, so I apologize to you if I did. I consider you a good person, I'd like to think you're a friend, and I mean no ill will towards you.
 

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Is it a biological urge for women to have babies? YES. Is it that you don't feel whole until you've done so? For many of us, yes that is true. There are other women who are able to hit the snooze alarm on their biological clock indefinetely. Is it some competition thing among women that somehow barren women are looked down upon? OUCH! okay that word barren hurts a little and I know I still have many viable eggs left. It's not a competition. The bottomline is our biological purpose as women is to procreate. We can be doctors, teachers, lawyers, CEO's at somepoint that means absolutely nothing without a baby. If you can't do the one thing you were put on earth for, then nothing else matters.

If you are a woman without children at age 30 people start looking at you funny, at 35 the stage whispering behind your back starts. By 37 you are openly pitied and sometimes shunned as if you had done something wrong by having standards and not allowing just any guy to knock you up.

I just don't get it. It's another world you guys live in. Yeah well it takes all kinds to make a world.

I still don't get how a circle jerk happens. There is no female equivalent. Women may get together, eat pizza, watch porn; and drink wine coolers; but we don't take off our panties and start rubbing our clits to see who can squirt the farthest. :tongue:


I told my 15 year old son recently. When you have sex with a woman without a condom on, you are saying to her "I am ok with having a child with you, and want to see you often over the next 18 years" EXCELLENT!!! If only more parents said the same thing to their sons!

Dont want babies, wear a condom, don't want STD's wear a condom, take control of your own destiny and never take people you just met on face value. ~ Honey Amen sister!
 

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Somewhat off-topic, sorta. I've never had sex, but my crazy crazy ex tried to convince me I had somehow gotten her pregnant. For a week I had to deal with her crying and "what are we going to tell me parents?" every 15minutes. I knew she had been cheating on me, and figured she'd gotten pregnant by 'that guy that only her friend'. She left my house in tears once bc i wouldnt sleep with her bc she wouldnt go on the pill bc she'd get addicted to them. (crazy crazy) Then another time she tried to convince me she knew "special techniques" that prevent her from getting pregnant. LOL. I know she'll be one of those welfware moms (and i dont mean people that are on disability, i mean the people that can buy 20" rims but still use food stamps) that'll trick fuck some poor guy.