Tricks For Getting & Staying Hard

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Would love to hear what guys do to get and maintain their hard on. Can you get yourself hard on cue? How do you keep it up?
I stimulate my mind and body…. To get hard be it through someone else’s touch or my own, something I see , my imagination….

Maintain? I continue the above…..

And yes I can pretty much summon a boner when I want to through the above


Are you struggling to stay hard is that the issue? And you need ideas to keep your self up?
 
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If you are having problems with keeping an erection either its some phycological problem or medically based but usually its because you've having to much sexual relief or you don't find your fuck sexy enough to keep your cock hard.
So wank less and try and enjoy the body underneath you, find it exciting even if you have to fantasise.
 

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Not jacking off to porn too much. (watching is fine, just dont cum to it everytime)

Having a vivid imagination, and a treasure trove of past sexual experiences that I can call upon...also many sexual taboo fantasies that I can also summon during the act in my mind to spice things up with a partner. For some reason I've always been able to find a way to rather easily incorporate my current sex partner at the time into whatever other fantasies I may have
 
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I stimulate my mind and body…. To get hard be it through someone else’s touch or my own, something I see , my imagination….

Maintain? I continue the above…..

And yes I can pretty much summon a boner when I want to through the above


Are you struggling to stay hard is that the issue? And you need ideas to keep your self up?

Idk if it's a mind or body thing. I'll be really horny. On the inside, I want to explode. But that doesn't translate to my physical body. Almost feels like it's all stuck inside and doesn't know where to go. I'll be so turned on by what's around me or what I'm doing or even what I'm thinking about. My body just doesn't always show it. It gets really frustrating.
 
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Idk if it's a mind or body thing. I'll be really horny. On the inside, I want to explode. But that doesn't translate to my physical body. Almost feels like it's all stuck inside and doesn't know where to go. I'll be so turned on by what's around me or what I'm doing or even what I'm thinking about. My body just doesn't always show it. It gets really frustrating.

How often do you wank / fuck / cum? And is it during particular activities (wank, bj, fuck etc) that you struggle?
 
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How often do you wank / fuck / cum? And is it during particular activities (wank, bj, fuck etc) that you struggle?

Happens to varying degrees in each. Least when wanking, most when fucking, usually can sustain BJs but it's not as hard at the end as it is in the beginning.
 
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Happens to varying degrees in each. Least when wanking, most when fucking, usually can sustain BJs but it's not as hard at the end as it is in the beginning.
Might be your wanking too hard, to hard a grip…. And your too used to the pressure of your hand, so when you transfer over to fucking and sucking the pressure perhaps isn’t there….
 
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Might be your wanking too hard, to hard a grip…. And your too used to the pressure of your hand, so when you transfer over to fucking and sucking the pressure perhaps isn’t there….

Hmm never thought about that. You might be on to something. I think I do have a pretty tight grip usually.
 
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Hmm never thought about that. You might be on to something. I think I do have a pretty tight grip usually.
Stronger grip desensitises the shaft over time, try a lighter grip and concentrating on your erogenous points for a while, you should see a change in sensitivity… but will take time
 
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Never really had any issues getting hard, just the sight of a naked woman and I'm swelling up ready for it. I don't usually have any trouble staying hard after busting either, just the feeling of being inside a pussy stretched around my dick along with the visual is enough to keep myself erect until I'm totally spent.
 

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I've noticed that watching and masturbating to porn excesively can make me be unable to reach an erection without the proper visual stimulation, so if you watch a lot of porna and masturbate a lot just quit doing it for some time and dont abuse it.
i can advice you to wear a cockring to keep your dick hard. if you wear it tight enough it will make your cock bigger and for me thats a confidence booster, i love when my dick gets bigger and harder. buy cockrings or if you're cheap like me, wear rubber bands,
Sometimes i've used viagra to get an erection but lately i've been working out and losing some weight and haven't used it for a while.
 
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It's more of a problem in a long sex session where you'll be doing a lot of fucking and expect to cum several times. Usually my gf or buddy can get my cock hard again with a bit of mouth work, but I also have four different cock rings ready as well. Cock rings are sexy and putting one on can be a turn-on in itself.
I think a different problem is at play if you're just planning to fuck one time and can't stay hard. There could suggest something psychological, or possibly medical, that you're in denial about
 
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