Well, I'm open to a wide range of physical types, looks and personalities. I never judge a book by its cover. I've had some surprises: The most beautiful sexy gf I had was also the most hung-up worst lover. One of the best gfs I ever had was neither pretty nor slim. But, oh boy, she had a great fun personality and was a superb lover. She knew how to take care of her man.
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we all do it to some extent I believe. we just have different standards.
as far as looking for someone who is close to being the perfect human being, I would feel awkward and out of place. Almost like they are too good for me so yeah. hope that makes sense.
Anyways I find that the average person is so much more interesting.
as far as looking for someone who is close to being the perfect human being, I would feel awkward and out of place. Almost like they are too good for me so yeah. hope that makes sense.
Anyways I find that the average person is so much more interesting.
So being beautiful all your life has no bearing on what kind of personality you develope? I have to strongly question that. Just like parents tend to nurture the intelectual abilities in a child showing cognitive potential, a woman who's been beautiful all her life may or may not actually need to develope an interesting personality, and may or may not need to be empathic, because people will hang around her anyway just because of the simple fact that she's hot. Who ever heard the story of the smoking hot high school outcast?
Being athletic is more a consequence of a character trait, like being disciplined, I agree. Or it could just be body dismorphic disorder.
Haha... Got to love this reasoning. "I'm just so perceptive, and notice every detail around me to such a degree that i MUST have beauty, otherwise it would be like torture! It's not my fault, I just... have... this... cursed talent!"
True. But women are most likely wired a bit differently on average when it comes to this. Studies show that men are on the whole much more visual creatures and evolutionary psychology also makes the claim that men place more importance on appearance when choosing a mate. I've gotten the same advice from women countless times, and I think its a case of females thinking that what attracts them - attracts men as well.
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I'm selective, deal with it. Everyone is selective to some level, I just happen to have a higher level of standards than yourself or others.
When I'm dating you, chances are I'll be around you quite a bit. And when I am, I will be looking at you. When I look at you, I have to be attracted to your personality as well as your looks and appearance. It can't all just be about a great personality.
The first thing that attracts you to someone is a physical feature (unless you are blind).
It's the truth. No one said the truth feels good.
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I've been accused & admit that I am a trophy hunter, but the way I see it, why settle for someone that you'll never be completely happy with? I date only women that turn me on every time I look at or even think about them.
I know that sounds shallow, but while it takes looks to get me interested in a woman, it takes personality to keep me interested in her. I've stopped dating beautiful & sexy women after reaching the conclusion after enough dates, that they were bitches because no amount of beauty or sex appeal is worth subjecting yourself to being around someone like that.
It's not the truth. It's a truth. Your truth.
But I doubt you would be able to consciously discern which part of your attraction to someone comes from their apperance, and which part comes from their body language, manerisms. I absolutely think you are in title to your opinion, but maybe, just maybe, you're not perceptive - just subjective.
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So being beautiful all your life has no bearing on what kind of personality you develope? I have to strongly question that. Just like parents tend to nurture the intelectual abilities in a child showing cognitive potential, a woman who's been beautiful all her life may or may not actually need to develope an interesting personality, and may or may not need to be empathic, because people will hang around her anyway just because of the simple fact that she's hot. Who ever heard the story of the smoking hot high school outcast?
Being athletic is more a consequence of a character trait, like being disciplined, I agree. Or it could just be body dismorphic disorder.
Well, I tried to point out that one does not exclude the other, I've seen plenty of average/ugly girls with horrible personalities and vice versa.
Chances of encountering bad personalities are equal so I'd rather take my chances with the prettier package.
As for the hot high school outcast story, oh yeah I've not only heard of it but played the lead in it several times. Like I said I have a thing for women who are hot but don't realise it. Typical nerdy, or alternative but hot nonetheless.
This. As for "looks reflects personality", that is just bullshit. Yes, sure, a fit body might be evidence that the person works out. This might be further evidence that that person is disciplined in some respects. But now we have to talk very vaguely in order that facts don't speak against us. I have a friend who is a bodybuilder with ADHD. He is not disciplined at all, and he can, seriously, get lost in his own bathroom. Yet he trains a lot. But now we are just talking about a certain type of appearance. You seem to be hinting at another, more brute type: looks in general. That pretty eyes are pretty is a trivial truth, but that they reflect some sort of deeper layer of personality is just... to repeat: bullshit. Take your sisters advice.
Hi white monster, i am also very much attracted to athletic woman and so often the girls I talk to have done modelling or are models. I really like athletic woman though even if they have not the pretiest face, but they put in effort.
I remember the woman that turned me on the most was also the oldest woman I ever had sex with even though she had 4 kids from ex-husband. her ex used to own a gym..
she was also the tightest ever and actually too tight. but I so share ur feelings
and I guess you already experiences that girls that are a 10 are often not the best in bed..unless they have a athletic body
7s, 8 and 9s are better . best is to find a girl that for whatever reason thinks she is a 7 and you find her a 9.. .
I also think that perhaps looking at too much porn / magazines style photos can do this and spending weeks/months away from that can make you feel attraced again to more plain woman ..maybe with a slighty bigger ass or whatever her imperfection is.
but yeah i just drule over woman with muscular legs...wish they could all have those..
I remember the woman that turned me on the most was also the oldest woman I ever had sex with even though she had 4 kids from ex-husband. her ex used to own a gym..
she was also the tightest ever and actually too tight. but I so share ur feelings
and I guess you already experiences that girls that are a 10 are often not the best in bed..unless they have a athletic body
7s, 8 and 9s are better . best is to find a girl that for whatever reason thinks she is a 7 and you find her a 9..
.I also think that perhaps looking at too much porn / magazines style photos can do this and spending weeks/months away from that can make you feel attraced again to more plain woman ..maybe with a slighty bigger ass or whatever her imperfection is.
but yeah i just drule over woman with muscular legs...wish they could all have those..
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