Hi, I don't know if this is the right category but here is my problem: I'm 21 years old and I've never had sex of any kind before because I wasn't ok with being gay and I didn't go on dates with guys.
Recently I've found this guy, we like each other a lot and we've been going out.
After a few dates on which we've been kissing we finally had the chance to be alone for an evening. We agreed that If I wanted we could have jerked off and maybe do a blow job. I wasn't anxious or anything like that because I trust him and while we kissed I had an hard on very often.
So we started watching a movie, kissed and everything was going fine, I had an hard on, than we started undressing and than he said he wanted to make me cum and than started sucking but it got soft. I also sucked him and enjoyed but than we stopped because I was still soft.
So we said goodbye, and texted later how we were both sorry and he was kind and said it wasn't a problem at all.
After this we went on a date, kissed and I got an hard on.
Than again today we kissed, had an hard on, went in his room and as soon as we undressed it got soft again and only got a bit hard while I was sucking him and jerking myself off.
That's all, now he is starting to think this is a problem and he's right. I mean i like him and while we kiss at first it seems to be ok but than it gets soft and I can't understand why! Has anyone had any similar experience? What should I do? I really like this guy!
Recently I've found this guy, we like each other a lot and we've been going out.
After a few dates on which we've been kissing we finally had the chance to be alone for an evening. We agreed that If I wanted we could have jerked off and maybe do a blow job. I wasn't anxious or anything like that because I trust him and while we kissed I had an hard on very often.
So we started watching a movie, kissed and everything was going fine, I had an hard on, than we started undressing and than he said he wanted to make me cum and than started sucking but it got soft. I also sucked him and enjoyed but than we stopped because I was still soft.
So we said goodbye, and texted later how we were both sorry and he was kind and said it wasn't a problem at all.
After this we went on a date, kissed and I got an hard on.
Than again today we kissed, had an hard on, went in his room and as soon as we undressed it got soft again and only got a bit hard while I was sucking him and jerking myself off.
That's all, now he is starting to think this is a problem and he's right. I mean i like him and while we kiss at first it seems to be ok but than it gets soft and I can't understand why! Has anyone had any similar experience? What should I do? I really like this guy!