My current girlfriend recently lost her virginity to me. She has given handjobs to other guys and she says I am the biggest she has seen. The first time we did it, we had to stop cause it hurt her. I knew that would happen. BTW this would be the first virgin I have had sex with. Anyway, the second time we did it, she could take it but looking at her face I could see she was in pain at some points, then liking it at others. She seemed to have gotten off in probably 5-8 minutes. But after 15 minutes, i could not get off. She has also given me 2 handjobs for about 10 minutes each (obviously different times. :tongue and i didn't get off either. When I am having sex, Im thinking about her liking it while I try to think about cumming faster for her. When she gives me a handjob, I just feel bad cause she is doing all the work and I don't want her to get tired. I try to relax but still nothing. I masterbate about 3 days a week. And it usually takes me about 10 minutes but I don't feel like I am even close with her. Im very attracted to her and everything needed to get off seems to be there but I don't know why I just can't. Its kinda embarassing. Not to mention it sucks and probably makes her feel bad. Also, she is coming over tonight so quick help would be appreciated. LOL Thanks in advance to everyone.