Hola amigos, amigas. I was until...well this morning having a great relationship with a beautiful girl. We woke up this morning, she didn't want sex and hardly kissed me or cuddled at all...except when watching Purple Rain, which I LOVED btw (so did she). Anyway, that was because she was hungover, had a headache and/or wasn't in the mood. Tonight she said it was because she didn't want the relationship to be 'just sex'. I told her it wasn't. And that I don't love Prince more than her. I said 'I admire Prince, I adore you'. Which she liked, then she said I'm "hard to read" because apparently sometimes I'm indifferent, others 'mean' and (I think mostly) nice/sweet. I was off with her because she was off with me this morning...although only very slightly, I still would try for a kiss etc. Anyway it comes to light tonight that she's talking to other guys on MSN...'yummy Italian stallion' was mistakenly sent to me. That upset me a little, because I really like this girl. Contrary to popular belief or her thinking, I DON'T talk to ANY other women, hardly any other people, on MSN. She said she talks to them because I never give her my 'full attention'. Which I found a bit strange. I told her sometimes I'm reading or writing etc. She has mentioned attention a lot. I don't mind attention from other guys but its how she handles it. From what she's said and other things, I think she enjoys it and encourages it rather than deflects and avoids it (from other men). I reply to her as fast as I can, I don't like to not reply for ages if possible because its ignorant. So now I'm wondering what to do...she has fallen from grace, and now because of that seems to be vehement that I am talking to other girls etc which just isn't the case. So what do I do: Stay with her because I like her and see how it goes Stay with her because now I have no respect/deep feelings for her, but because the sex is good and we'll have a weekend together soon Dump her Other (please state) Sorry for the long post but this is bothering me.