Trouble with penis hardness

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Hello,

Just want to know if the following experience that I have is considered normal and if more people experience this and how they cope with it:

Whenever I get an erection, it is never completely hard.
It only gets completely hard if I do a kegel.
This goes for sex as well. I need to kegel if I want to have an orgasm, I can keep going forever if I don't.
Which means going forever with a 90% erection. Which also means that my penis is not the biggest it can be when I don't kegel.
I can't kegel the entire time I have sex, it's too difficult and exhausting.

When having sex and then suddenly doing a kegel, the girl always makes a sound that she feels that my penis just got harder and bigger.

Ofcourse I wish I could be 100% all the time.

Is this normal? And do other guys recognize themselves in what I just described?

I can have sex just fine, it's just that I don't understand why I'm not at maximum capacity unless I do a kegel.

This does prove to be a problem when doing, for instance, the cowgirl position. I can't do this position at all. It's impossible to kegel indefinitely with a girl on top of you. And because I can't its not hard enough to do the cowgirl. It bends a bit inside her which pushes blood out. Which in turn makes me anxious that she might bend it to far so it hurts aaaaaand erection is gone.

Also my penis usually hangs when erect. It doesn't stand upright if I'm on my back. It either hangs down or lays on my belly.

I can live with it ofcourse..but.. Anyone recognize this? Or have some advise for me? Very much appreciated.
 

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Hi siempie. Was looking through your stats for your age. Many of us nearing or in our 40's encounter this thing. Our energy levels peak and valley do to everyday life. I'm not sure if there's any real solution or pe to solve this problem. It happens to me at times and pushing in the kegel manouver is a temporary fix. Maybe a form of viagra or suppliment is something to consider. Keep me posted bout this, very intrested. Ty.
 

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I'm 25. Have had this since I can remember. Never had a rock hard (100%)penis. Only when close to orgasm do I achieve this. My penis was about 6.9"x4.7" and through PE I managed to get to 7.9"x5.2" over the past 2-3 years.

But, as I said, I've had this since I can remember so I don't see the PE as the cause of this 'problem'.

I am doing more kegel excersizes recently, hope they help. Still hoping to find some more guys with the same experience though. So please respond. If not I might consult my doctor.

Cheers
 

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Kegels is a good place to start. As well as cardio and a generally healthy diet and lifestyle. As far as things to take, maybe try green tea. It helps with blood flow (capsules, or drink a *lot* of it)
 

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stop watching porn, stop masturbating.For atleast 2/3 weeks, if you still have problems after this go and see your doctor.
 

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Thank you for your replies.

I do kegels a lot in the bathmate, almost constantly. I also workout 3 times a week and eat healthy and take supplements. So, that should all be covered.

I haven't tried the abstinence route. However, I still think that other man are able to get 100% erection all the time, right? So that should point out that masturbating frequently could not cause a small case of ED. I'll try it at some point.

Thanks you