Hello,
Just want to know if the following experience that I have is considered normal and if more people experience this and how they cope with it:
Whenever I get an erection, it is never completely hard.
It only gets completely hard if I do a kegel.
This goes for sex as well. I need to kegel if I want to have an orgasm, I can keep going forever if I don't.
Which means going forever with a 90% erection. Which also means that my penis is not the biggest it can be when I don't kegel.
I can't kegel the entire time I have sex, it's too difficult and exhausting.
When having sex and then suddenly doing a kegel, the girl always makes a sound that she feels that my penis just got harder and bigger.
Ofcourse I wish I could be 100% all the time.
Is this normal? And do other guys recognize themselves in what I just described?
I can have sex just fine, it's just that I don't understand why I'm not at maximum capacity unless I do a kegel.
This does prove to be a problem when doing, for instance, the cowgirl position. I can't do this position at all. It's impossible to kegel indefinitely with a girl on top of you. And because I can't its not hard enough to do the cowgirl. It bends a bit inside her which pushes blood out. Which in turn makes me anxious that she might bend it to far so it hurts aaaaaand erection is gone.
Also my penis usually hangs when erect. It doesn't stand upright if I'm on my back. It either hangs down or lays on my belly.
I can live with it ofcourse..but.. Anyone recognize this? Or have some advise for me? Very much appreciated.
Just want to know if the following experience that I have is considered normal and if more people experience this and how they cope with it:
Whenever I get an erection, it is never completely hard.
It only gets completely hard if I do a kegel.
This goes for sex as well. I need to kegel if I want to have an orgasm, I can keep going forever if I don't.
Which means going forever with a 90% erection. Which also means that my penis is not the biggest it can be when I don't kegel.
I can't kegel the entire time I have sex, it's too difficult and exhausting.
When having sex and then suddenly doing a kegel, the girl always makes a sound that she feels that my penis just got harder and bigger.
Ofcourse I wish I could be 100% all the time.
Is this normal? And do other guys recognize themselves in what I just described?
I can have sex just fine, it's just that I don't understand why I'm not at maximum capacity unless I do a kegel.
This does prove to be a problem when doing, for instance, the cowgirl position. I can't do this position at all. It's impossible to kegel indefinitely with a girl on top of you. And because I can't its not hard enough to do the cowgirl. It bends a bit inside her which pushes blood out. Which in turn makes me anxious that she might bend it to far so it hurts aaaaaand erection is gone.
Also my penis usually hangs when erect. It doesn't stand upright if I'm on my back. It either hangs down or lays on my belly.
I can live with it ofcourse..but.. Anyone recognize this? Or have some advise for me? Very much appreciated.