True Average Penis Size

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I've been going to JO club for years and live the lifestyle. And I have seen hundreds and hundreds of hard dicks, in real life. The vast majority of men range from 4 - 6 inches in length and are about thick as a toilet paper roll.

There were guys in the 7 inch range and they were uncommon and around 8 inches is rare. I've never seen anything around 9 inches.

Now these are just eyeball measurements. There are guys out there who asked me to measure their dicks. So I could tell it was "x" inches long and "y" inches thick. So I have more or less a good idea of how big a dick is, a ball park estimate anyway.
 

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I've been going to JO club for years and live the lifestyle. And I have seen hundreds and hundreds of hard dicks, in real life. The vast majority of men range from 4 - 6 inches in length and are about thick as a toilet paper roll.

There were guys in the 7 inch range and they were uncommon and around 8 inches is rare. I've never seen anything around 9 inches.

Now these are just eyeball measurements. There are guys out there who asked me to measure their dicks. So I could tell it was "x" inches long and "y" inches thick. So I have more or less a good idea of how big a dick is, a ball park estimate anyway.

Thank you. That's about the right picture and consistent with all the studies out there. 5 point something is average length. All these wild claims crack me up.
 
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It makes sense that the average is 5 inches and point something because most vaginas fit that size and the womb will get pregnant especially in different parts of the planet.
 

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I'm not surprised about average size between 5 and 6. I'm 16.5cm 6.5in and most of time I see guys with smaller dicks and they say I've a big dick and they wish to get fucked. As a versatile top, I look for big dicks to fuck me and I don't see a lot.
 

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At 6*5 inches, I always considered myself to be small, from two ex girlfriends telling me I was small, and seeing numerous large ones in the showers when playing sport. As I get older I realise that these experiences were not reflective of real life and coupled with watching porn, it affected me most of my adult life, actually making me avoid sexual experiences.

Now I’m my 40s I’ve finally come to terms with being at least average, and feel a certain degree of anger about wasting so much time worrying about being small.

To cut a long story short, I believe that 6*5 is not too far off average, but the flacid sizes you encounter vary so greatly that it can give people a warped view of what is average.
 

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I ve sucked too many dicks to count and while 9 in is rare there were oodles in the 7 to 8 in category
My experience is the same as yours. If you go on Sniffies here in Palm Springs, there are tons of 7-8 inch dicks out there....I would say 7.5 and 8 are the most common sizes. Hardly any 5 inch dicks. And the pictures seem to confirm those sizes.
 
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My experience is the same as yours. If you go on Sniffies here in Palm Springs, there are tons of 7-8 inch dicks out there....I would say 7.5 and 8 are the most common sizes. Hardly any 5 inch dicks. And the pictures seem to confirm those sizes.

Tons of 7-8 inch dicks - why? Because that's what they claim? Or, because that is what you have legitimately measured?
 

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My experience is the same as yours. If you go on Sniffies here in Palm Springs, there are tons of 7-8 inch dicks out there....I would say 7.5 and 8 are the most common sizes. Hardly any 5 inch dicks. And the pictures seem to confirm those sizes.

I was over seven, "almost eight" for years until I accurately measured myself and I discovered not only was I not close to 8 in, but 8 inches is very rare. Six and 7/8 bone pressed, measured along the top for perspective. We are all prone to over "measuring" our big fish....
 

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I was over seven, "almost eight" for years until I accurately measured myself and I discovered not only was I not close to 8 in, but 8 inches is very rare. Six and 7/8 bone pressed, measured along the top for perspective. We are all prone to over "measuring" our big fish....
 

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So gay guy here - if anyone ever comments on your cock in public or just says something piece of shit wise -

1. Just remember who in society would ever comment on something like that in public - don’t bear any mind to it. Psychologically you can come back to them with a response but that’s for another class.

2. I personally would find it veryyyyy odd behaviour for someone to be demeaning any guy for any reason especially for something that they were born with.
I’m a grower and grow to like 7-7’5 but really flaccid when soft and if anyone would say anything or start to comment - ahhhh - you have the power to embarrass and eviscerate them.

What grown man would ever say anything about another guys penis in a public setting as this - in a gym, shower, sauna, steam room.

I’ve never had to go through it so i can’t say what I’d do but love your life, naked in the locker room, shower how you want and if someone says anything they’re the problem.
 

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I have always been concerned / intimidated about my very modest size. I’m a true 5.5 NBP ( MAYBE 5.75” on a good day ) with about the same thickness and a big mushroom head.

“Sex positive” is how explain why I have enjoyed close to 2,000 hard cocks in my hands and mouth. I am constantly surprised when I hear “I love your big thick cock …”

On occasion guys are thicker and longer than me … I would venture to say I’d be at about the 65th percentile on length and 80/85 percentile on girth. I was truly surprised when I started hooking up regularly with how well I measured up to other guys. It truly is a needle in the haystack finding a really big one. Yes, I get rejected by size queens that only want 7+.
But the more sex I have, the more I realize my cock is slightly above average, at least in my sample pool. Geographically, that is primarily upper Midwest, with a hefty sexual appetite when I travel for work or pleasure ( CHI, NY, DC, Vegas, Key West, etc )

And, your perspective of “big” changes. One guy I met years ago was among my earliest encounters and I thought he had a really big thick cock. Fast forward ten years, and when we played around again, I was looking forward to that monster only to realize he was maybe an inch bigger and about the same thickness.

Just my unscientific, yet personally slutty experience and perspective.
 

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Certainly hard to talk about this with any precision but after decades of sauna and steam room witnessing and participating in New York City, average length is definitely less than six. Even that unofficial average would be skewed slightly larger as the smallest of guys aren't choosing to be on display.
 
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I have always been concerned / intimidated about my very modest size. I’m a true 5.5 NBP ( MAYBE 5.75” on a good day ) with about the same thickness and a big mushroom head.

“Sex positive” is how explain why I have enjoyed close to 2,000 hard cocks in my hands and mouth. I am constantly surprised when I hear “I love your big thick cock …”

On occasion guys are thicker and longer than me … I would venture to say I’d be at about the 65th percentile on length and 80/85 percentile on girth. I was truly surprised when I started hooking up regularly with how well I measured up to other guys. It truly is a needle in the haystack finding a really big one. Yes, I get rejected by size queens that only want 7+.
But the more sex I have, the more I realize my cock is slightly above average, at least in my sample pool. Geographically, that is primarily upper Midwest, with a hefty sexual appetite when I travel for work or pleasure ( CHI, NY, DC, Vegas, Key West, etc )

And, your perspective of “big” changes. One guy I met years ago was among my earliest encounters and I thought he had a really big thick cock. Fast forward ten years, and when we played around again, I was looking forward to that monster only to realize he was maybe an inch bigger and about the same thickness.

Just my unscientific, yet personally slutty experience and perspective.
Although I still remain unconvinced that average is really under 6" I really appreciate different perspectives such as yours. Makes me feel a little better at least for a little while.
 
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