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You are so right about others sharing information that we did not know. In some cases, I sorta knew, but needed validation. In other cases I've learned others perspectives that I would never know without reading here.Thank you, Freddie for your kind words, though, I must say I hardly consider myself a shining example for other contributors here... only a member of a team of others who, including yourself, I have admiration for...
each fighting the good fight by bringing their OWN expertise, insight, perspective, empathy, concern, and personal experiences to us, sharing information about things I otherwise would have never known, and from whom I'VE learned a GREAT deal.
And yes, as you have written, HOPEFULLY, WE "have made a [positive] difference in the lives" of at least a FEW who have read" OUR posts, so that they may "rise from the gutter of racism, sexism," and hate.
Maybe one day humanity may learn to value each person by what they like, think, say and do. When we think about it, the idea that anyone can have their character be judged by the pigment of their skin as asinine.
I am a retired teacher. My fear is that one of my former students will be killed in cold blood for no other reason except the amount of pigment in his skin. I was visiting with a dear friend who is black and she shared the same concern. Her grandsons are both straight A students and great athletes.
My friend and her daughter and son in law should not have to worry every time the sun goes down that before the sun comes up the next morning one of her grandsons has been murdered in the first degree for being black.
I've come to understand that it is not enough to form the best opinions and beliefs about other people. We need to be proactive. I'm learning a lot about that here.
I am hopeful that my being here and posting will not only make a difference in others, but it will help better define how I feel and what I can do in the world about what I see that is wrong.
When the issue of blackface came up, at first I didn't catch the problem. Then someone posted here at LPSG how the term blackface was used in the past. As soon as I got to the term minstrel. That is all I needed to know.
I remember a minstrel show being down as a fund raiser to raise money for those who need glasses, but can't afford them. I had never seen anything like a minstrel before. I was still in elementary school at the time. We had just moved to this Southern town. I'm very proud that my father quietly, but surely ended minstrels in the town where I lived a good part of my childhood. My father gently and guietly explained how demeaning doing minstrel shows was to the African American community. What is important is that there never was another minstrel show done for any reason in that small town. I've tried to follow that same example that my father set.
I remember my father saying that the purpose of the fund raiser was noble, that is providing glasses for those who can't afford them. But that did not justify using mockery of an ethnic group to raise the funds. I can't remember exactly how he said it. He had a way of saying things that people could understand and also respect what he had to say. The thrust of his message to the people of that small town has stayed with me through the decades I have lived since.
Combating racism requires us to look for the small stuff that is wrong. The reason I say that is that the large bad stuff is made up of lots of small bad stuff. (If that makes any sense.) It is the little battles that we win that add up to someday being totally victorious in the big battles of life.
I keep reminding myself that each person needs to remember that if a person is not part of the solution then by default he becomes part of the problem.
If I have helped one person see how racism is wrong, then my posts will have been worth it all.
There have been a few points that I being white had not seen, but I became aware because I read your posts.