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Why are you talking about which bathroom trans children should use at school and adults acting inappropriately in bathrooms in the same post? They have nothing to do with each other.I do think it's a different matter when it comes to student bathrooms, as all kids are more sensitive at a certain age. And trans kids are vulnerable to embarrassment and ridicule whichever bathroom they use. Kids can be little shits. They mostly were at my school. But bullying behaviour was usually met with a 'kids will be kids' kind of attitude. And I agree that a certain amount of jokes and taunting is just part of growing up. I suspect attitudes have changed since I was young but I don't know how much. Maybe trans kids can be granted permission to use the accessible bathroom. They're safer if there is no one else around them.
We rely on a certain amount of respect for each other when it comes to public bathroom etiquette. There will always be people who break the rules. I've witnessed people being inappropriate twice, once very openly in broad daylight in a shopping centre toilet. I'm not sure what the answer is for preventing that kind of behaviour besides increased security. I don't know how common it is, but I think it's safe to say that men commit the vast majority of these kind of acts. Maybe the law just needs to be harsher on these people.