I have to agree with all you guy's, that this is the best thread to date. I think Jumbo should be awarded the LPSG Gold Medal for his contribution. It certainly instills in me just how much our thoughts and comments are read, digested and replied to. Not just by the modurators, but all members in general.
I think we are apt to have a tendency to see things in black and white. In this case Straight - Hetro or Gay - Homo. We must realise that it is not as simple as that, there are a large scale of varying shades of grey in between. I think it's man's fear of rejection by his fellow men that causes him to suppress any feeling or action that others make see or describe as soft, feminine, bi, gay.
I think it is so so sad that individuals feel that outwardly they have to present them selves in a type cast way dictated to by society and the media. Rather being free to be the person they truly are inside. I speak from experience, having had feelings for men steming back to my youth. But back in the 50's in the UK Homosexuallity was a criminal offence, punishable by imprisonment. Thankfully I am glad to say things have changed dramatically, but taken over 50 years to do so. It was expected that you would get married, I conformed and was married for 22 years, but 22 years of living a lie. Unable to be the person I truely was inside. Until the day I could no longer suppress my inner feelings. Now again single and a openly gay and very happy. My friends have stuck by me infact I would say we were much closer than ever.
We live in a world where people think more and more of themselves than others, a world of I, me and mine. Our world has never been as affluent as it is today, yet there is more and more violence, hatred, greed. We need to learn to cherrish others become that inner person not just to others, but to ourselves also. I think that this thread has made us think about whom we are and not what people society expects of us. By being like this, people would be less on the defensive and more giving, caring and understanding of others. I'm truely heartend and encourage by the responces they have been posted with much thought and understanding. We are all agreed that there is than huge need, lets get out there and star a world trend. if your friends don't like it, then were they a true friend. Smile and the world smiles with you.
Thanks Jumbo for making us think and express our inner thoughts and feelings all we have to do now is, but it into practice. Anyone want to discuss there feelings, in total confidence, with a like minded feel free to message me
Love you all and thanks for being there It is apprecaited.
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