I know this has the potential to be an awful like the thread about what women want to hear in bed over in Women's Issues insofar as everyone has differing opinions, but I'd really like the views on this: I just recently (last month) broke up with my girlfriend of a yr and half after I caught her deleting contacts off of my cell phone and deleting friends off of sites like facebook.com and myspace.com. The majority of our relationship had been long distance, and I had just moved back into the community in the fall of last yr. I won't lie and say that we had a perfect relationship - we argued like any normal couple...but what could cause such a breach of trust to make her think that by me having female friends I'm a cheater? Granted, most of my friends are women - in HS and thus far in college I just don't get along well with guys my own age (who seem to think acting "macho" and looking like Calvin Klein says they should makes a male a man). I was never anything but open and trusting with her...can anyone make heads or tails of this? Is there a way to keep my friends I've had my whole life and find a girlfriend who can accept them as easily as I accept her guy friends?