two_fister: I don't think I made this up, but I know I perfected it. It's a version of the missionary, but what you do is have the girl close her legs, and you put your legs outside of hers. This allows you to ride higher, and in turn you're closer to her clit, and with her legs closed she can concentrate on squeezing you. You can also try this this with the women on top, it's the same basic thing you open your legs and she closes hers. This allows her great clit stimulation, plus you can grab her ass and really pull her down on you. I find that being able to maintan a rock hard erection helps too....so keep up on the kegels.