Trying a dildo - does it get easier

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Sex isn’t just pounding in and out of the ass with a cock. Small in and out, circular motions etc work well. In my experience anal isn’t what you see in porn.

Ah ‍ makes sense. Obviously asking real people here was a good idea then. Thanks also nice set of balls @Unashamed

 

[cedarizzo]

Does it change anything about the one direction. Like the normal pipes work the same yeah?

How your body senses is not the same. Up until you start shoving something up your ass, your body isn't used to that sensation. No, these aren't "pipes" and they do not work the same.

 

[deleted15682271]

So just more practise? I usually feel ok once it's in but don't feel good moving it in and out.

Your probably clenching on it

 

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Your probably clenching on it

Ok! Gotta relax while thrusting ?

 

[briacon429]

Ok! Gotta relax while thrusting ?

Try squeezing on it, as if you’re taking a shit. I know it sounds weird but it works… at least imho!

 

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Try squeezing on it, as if you’re taking a shit. I know it sounds weird but it works… at least imho!

While moving it in and out?

 

[wvgwm52]

If have a dick or dildo in your ass

but don’t like how it feels when moving in and out .. is it lubed enough? To big ?

I also would love to know what your life was like growing up.. were you around people all time saying homosexuality is wrong ? It’s a sim? It’s immoral?

having these things put in your mind stays there and then when do it.. your mind is programmed not to enjoy it because it’s a sin

 

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If have a dick or dildo in your ass

but don’t like how it feels when moving in and out .. is it lubed enough? To big ?

I also would love to know what your life was like growing up.. were you around people all time saying homosexuality is wrong ? It’s a sim? It’s immoral?

having these things put in your mind stays there and then when do it.. your mind is programmed not to enjoy it because it’s a sin

Interesting, never heard this before. Think enough lube and not too big (do you mean thick or long)?

The whole of society was surrounded by that

 

[hvdude]

Tips: relax, breathe, plenty of lube, go slow and did I mention relax. If you just bend over, slap some lube on your hole and try to shove it in, it's NOT going to be pleasurable. If you watch any gay porn movie you'll see that most times the top spends a lot of time getting the bottom ready through rimming and fingering, but also rubbing his back, torso, legs and a lot of kissing. Then, when he knows his bottom is ready, he lubes up and slides gently in especially if he knows the bottom is new to it.
The toughest part is getting the head of the cock past the anus and into the rectum. There's usually a discernible "pop" once that happens. Again, the key is to relax, breathe and enjoy it slowly.