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Can you elaborate a little more on the question please
Are you wanting to penetrate the man or be penetrated?
As a straight man, there is no circumstance where I would ever consider having sex with a man.
You might want to post this in the Ask a Bisexual Man section.
Why would not having a functional penis make you want to have sex with someone you're not attracted to? that doesn't make any sense?I used to be same, when you don't have a functioning penis you have to reassess a lot of things.
I somewhat understand the line of thought; the inability to penetrate means penetration is the only way to get some release, and most heterosexual women are not keen on being the penetrating party...Why would not having a functional penis make you want to have sex with someone you're not attracted to? that doesn't make any sense?
When I said it doesn't make sense I didn't mean in the sense of being able to penetrate a woman. I mean straight men are attracted to women only. So whether or not they can get it up to have sex wouldn't change that fact. Half of sex is pleasing the woman you are with so even if you can't feel pleasure your self you can still provide for the woman you're with using every other part of your body or using toys.I somewhat understand the line of thought; the inability to penetrate means penetration is the only way to get some release, and most heterosexual women are not keen on being the penetrating party...
Id personally resign myself to self stimulation if that were the case, but i can see where other more opportunistic men might look to non hetero solutions for their issues.
Would have to be penetrated
I used to be same, when you don't have a functioning penis you have to reassess a lot of things.
I think the implication is a lot of men are more sexually fluid than they even thought. I also think men in general are willing to overlook more in pursuit of orgasm.When I said it doesn't make sense I didn't mean in the sense of being able to penetrate a woman. I mean straight men are attracted to women only. So whether or not they can get it up to have sex wouldn't change that fact. Half of sex is pleasing the woman you are with so even if you can't feel pleasure your self you can still provide for the woman you're with using every other part of your body or using toys.
Going to gay sex make no sense because straight men are not attracted to men. And would more than likely not be looking for anal stimulation and even if they were they can easily be pegged by a woman. Wich goes back to there being no logical reason for a person to want to have sex with someone they have no attractions just because their dick doesn't work.
Of course not..it could also be a sign of bisexuality.Straight having sex with gay boy doesnt mean hes A GAY..
Notice how you stop short because i could going using the same logic in referring to adolescents, blood relatives or animals..a big part of sex is whom you intend to have it with which is the determination of ones sexuality, even if their social and romantic patterns don't necessarily follow suit.SEX IS SEX not about your feeling.... Normal guys drive more sexual tension.... release it for what ever reasons with BI , Gay, trans, CD partner ... AlL of it its okey
Of course not..it could also be a sign of bisexuality.
Notice how you stop short because i could going using the same logic in referring to adolescents, blood relatives or animals..a big part of sex is whom you intend to have it with which is the determination of ones sexuality, even if their social and romantic patterns don't necessarily follow suit.
I think we need to get away from this idea of straight men engaging in homo or bisexual acts simply because women cannot or do not fulfill their sexual needs, when far more heterosexual men opt to wait for a cis female to be available and willing instead of opportunistically going another route.