I won't lie. I suck when it comes to the ladies. I'm shy, have self-confidance and self-esteem issues, I'm not very interesting, I think, and I guess I really just don't understand women, at all. Oh, and I'm a virgin, if you didn't already figure that out. Thing is, I am 9x6.. If all the rumors and stereotypes about hung guys were true, then I shouldn't have any of these issues, yet, here I am whining about it. So when I hear about 'smaller' guys whining about how if they were bigger they'd get more ladies or something like that I'm usually pretty skeptical and just ignore them, thinking it's all in their heads. But then, that would mean all my issues are all in my head too, which is sorta like a paradox or epiphany or the like and I guess I just don't want to accept that. In any case, there's a few things I've been wondering recently.. Usually I don't show off the cock. I make the assumption that people don't want to see that and just keep it in my pants, because honestly, how many people do you think want to see it? Not many. At least, not many guys, whom I grew up with for the most part, so I guess this question is more directed at the ladies, as I'd really like to flaunt my manhood but fear of rejection hurts so badly sometimes. When is the right time to talk about penises and sexy-time and all that jazz? Because if it were left up to me, I'd talk about it 24/7. It's really quite an interesting subject but you have to be careful who to talk to it about as there are decency laws around every corner and packs of lawyers waiting nearby for hapless subjects to come strolling by. Generally I stay quiet and entertain myself somehow, but this makes me look weird and scary, when otherwise I'd just be perverted and horny. Do women like sex as much as men? I'm really, really confused about this one as I really didn't have any real female friends until senior year of high school (I know)... I was very reclusive then, and if I knew then what I know now, well, maybe I wouldn't of been. But I was and I can't change that. So if I know women are as open to talk about it as men are then it's a huge relief and I guess I can be a little more open. I am starting to find my friend very (very) attractive. The problem is, she is my friend, and I can't figure out if what I'm feeling is lust, desperation, hunger, some combination of the 3, or whether I actually do like her, in that way, and that bothers me because I've known her for a good deal of time and I don't want to sacrifice that for some momentary happiness. But the problem is, is that it's getting to the point of if I sit on this much longer I'm going to do something I'm going to regret so I need advice post haste on what to do in this situation because I am the stereotypical retarded man and I'm really confused. Anyway, thanks for reading all that. I don't even really know what answers to expect, but I guess that's half the fun in posting..