Trying To Start A Conversation With My Crush , Help Me

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Hi so I have this huuuuuuge crush on this older guy , he’s older by a year , we go to the same college , i’m in marketing he’s in accounting , i’m 4th year he’s 5th , so the thing with me is I like so start as friends with my crushes , i’m trying to start a conversation with him but I don’t know what to say , we never talked before , we look at each other from time to time but that’s it , i don’t care if he’s straight or bi I just wanna have a conversation with him because it’s driving me crazy , but I just don’t know what to say ? I was thinking maybe asking him for help with my car or lending me his phone to make a phone call , and say that my phone is dead ? And then I can go up to him the day after and thank him and start being friends from then ?
 
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Why not just trying some honesty from the start? You can ask about a team sport at your university or his job prospects or even a comment on the weather. Just try to stay away from yes/no questions and be a good listener. If he responds to a question with some details, show that you heard him and comment on his answer or ask a follow up question. Good luck.
 
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And then I can go up to him the day after and thank him and start being friends from then ?
Does your culture limit the kind of contact you can make or the kind of topics you can discuss.
 

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Sam, first of all you are a HOT man! WOW... love your pics dude. OK, it can be awkward to just work your way into being friends so maybe just give the guy a compliment (i.e., nice shirt). Guys are cool with that or maybe ask him where he works out. You obviously do from the looks of it.

Good luck!
 

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What broke the ice? More please......
I was going to pass an oral test and I was waiting for my turn and he was in the class next to me and I said is the test hard ? And he bought a friend and they started motivating me , after that at the evening , I was driving home and I told him to hop in and he was like my friend is going to pick me up thank you so much man , by the way how was the test ? I answered and he was like i told you it was easy