Hey I have a question about my girlfriend. During sex she generally gives me the reins. I think she likes to be dominated. She usually prefers really deep penetration (Im very well endowed and its very tight but she is very deep it seems.) and for those two reasons I am generally afraid of going too deep because she will sometimes pull away or wince or sort of make sounds like she is getting hurt. (there has never been any blood after a year and a half) After we finish, through the sex which seems like she is in pain the whole time, sometimes she is nearly crying, she clings to me and kisses me all over and hugs me insanely tight and smiles and giggles and laughs about how good it was and how she loves me so much and I'm such a good lover.
Is this because she loves me and wants me to think I'm doing a good job?
Is it because she just "puts up with it" because she knows how nice it feels to pound cervix and be all the way inside her?
Does she really enjoy it and she's not making it up?
I hear her literally crying during it and pulling away but she says she likes to be dominated and struggle against my forceful thrusts and holding her down (basically this only happens during doggy)
What's the deal? Do girls really fake this even in committed relationships? We have been together for almost a year and a half and I think we are really close. We always have a ton of sex and she is always willing and ready at my request. Is there more to what meets the eye and Im just too much of "a guy" to see it? I am just trying to better understand women and trying to be the best I can be. Thanks!
Is this because she loves me and wants me to think I'm doing a good job?
Is it because she just "puts up with it" because she knows how nice it feels to pound cervix and be all the way inside her?
Does she really enjoy it and she's not making it up?
I hear her literally crying during it and pulling away but she says she likes to be dominated and struggle against my forceful thrusts and holding her down (basically this only happens during doggy)
What's the deal? Do girls really fake this even in committed relationships? We have been together for almost a year and a half and I think we are really close. We always have a ton of sex and she is always willing and ready at my request. Is there more to what meets the eye and Im just too much of "a guy" to see it? I am just trying to better understand women and trying to be the best I can be. Thanks!