Tugging on it (a confession of sorts)

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  1. RawDog

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    I know guys do it all the time, but I've gotten to the point I don't even notice it and when I do, I feel somewhat embarrassed about it.

    I'm a todger tugger. When I'm watching TV or sitting at my desk (at home), I constantly tug on my dick. I hate it and I love it at the same time. I love the feeling of being fluffed and full. I hate being a grower, dammit I want to be a shower.

    Anyway, where was I... I have a question for the women. Are there any women out there who have this incessant urge to tug on or fondle their privates when just relaxing? I know most men already do this, but to what extent obviously varies.

    I once saw a behind the scenes shoot in a porno once and as the director was instructing the actresses what to do, some of them were just sitting and playing with their clits as they were having a regular conversation.

    I know I'm asking a question more suited to a troll asking for wank fodder, but I'm really curious if there are women that do this.
     
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    It makes the keyboard sticky and "unhygienic".:tongue:

    *Reaches for sani-wipes*
     
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    All humans tug on their privates, it is nice to fluff them up few times a day. :)
     
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    I know you said you were looking for the female perspective, but you're def not the only dude to do that. Don't be embarrassed of that.
     
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    I do the same Raw Dog. I guess it has become a habit for me.
     
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    Many guys who do PE have found an increase in flaccid size. Have you tried this?

    Otherwise, as I see it, you have three options:

    1. Keep tugging on your todger. If it feels good, what the hell?
    2. Try and extender or an "all day stretcher" to free up your hands.
    3. Look yourself up in a male chastity device so as to keep your grubby hands off your unit.
     
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    I don`t like it. My bf does it all the time and he doesn`t seem to be bothered with the people in the room, and I think it`s ewwwwwww. I haven`t complained about it yet. He has already gotten his share of 'bitchy Luka', I`m waiting for the right moment;)
     
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    i never think to touch my bits unless i'm in the bath or in bed and musing on a good wank scene. the rest of the time, my hands never go there.
     
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    For flaccid length(shower) try "fowfers" They worked for me and a lot of guys swear by them. I think the attached link will get you to the post where I describe "fowfers" and will link you to the video illustration.

    http://www.lpsg.org/214947-fows-pe-2.html#post3215974

    Good Luck.

    fow
     
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    dude, you are frickin' weird!
     
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    ya not the only one, Mr. RawDog. cept i am more prone to random breast fondling. not a full on feel up, just stroking and rubbing.

    the boy tells me i sleep with my hand cupped over jenny.

    last bit of self molesting... if i let my pubic hair grow out i like to tug on it. not something i do in mixed company. usually when i am home alone, watching tv.

    i do like nail tickling the area from hip to hip, just above the pube line.
     
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    Breast fluffer, cupped had over panties, no rubbing underneath unless I'm frisky.
     
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    Hubby "adjusts" himself every so often, but I don't count that as fondling. If it were a habitual, oft-occuring thing then I might be bothered. Sometimes I'll tease him, but most of the time I just let it be.

    Of course, sometimes I have to adjust my underwire when I'm working in the yard, and for some strange, weird, man-boy reason he finds it sexy. Good gosh.
     
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    For clarification purposes only :rolleyes:
    Your breasts or those of other women?
     
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    the cupped hand is so loverly. a bit arousing, a bit comforting.. and warm. i seriously get all cuddly.

    *snickers at self*

    both :tongue1: ex-girlies can attest to my roaming hands.

    i am serial auto-pilot fondler.

    i posted something about my habit of random manipulation of the boy's package many, many threads back.
     
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    Comfort:smile: I also tend to sit or lie with a hand between my legs, not quite touching my privates. *shrugs*
     
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    Great responses so far. I feel so much more normal now.

    I like the whole "comfort" aspect to it as well.
     
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    Aren't the cunt electrodes you use somewhat similar to my tugging though? They'd provide the same sensations, only hands free, no?
     
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    in bed, thinking about wank fodder.

    ...you think playing with yourself feels like an electric shock??
     
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    The spasms are similar. The shock itself is irritating for me. Like static electricity when you walk barefoot on the carpet. (Yes, I've rigged my TENS unit with 2 cock rings)
     
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