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So I was traveling abroad and decided to meet up with a gay guy from an app. He was really great person (shared a drink, chatted, got onto know each other for probably an hour). We then hooked up (jo and mutual jo which we both looking for). I think we we were both satisfied. We traded numbers. I would be interested in becoming platonic friends or friend with benefits. He was just really a great guy (and attractive). I Would like him to stay in my life in some for. despite the geographic distance. Any advice about moving forward?
 

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Interactions can take a life of their own - often in wonderful directions. I think most relationships start with a moment, even if you've known each other forever, and you know it will be different. My most cherished friend and lover began with a hook up.
 
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So I was traveling abroad and decided to meet up with a gay guy from an app. He was really great person (shared a drink, chatted, got onto know each other for probably an hour). We then hooked up (jo and mutual jo which we both looking for). I think we we were both satisfied. We traded numbers. I would be interested in becoming platonic friends or friend with benefits. He was just really a great guy (and attractive). I Would like him to stay in my life in some for. despite the geographic distance. Any advice about moving forward?

I would just keep chatting with him. Let him know, casually, that you thought he was a cool guy and that you had a great time hanging out with him. Perhaps you could even jack on skype or something similar? At least, until you could see each other again.