turn on or off?

B_big dirigible

Experimental Member
Joined
Dec 27, 2005
Posts
2,672
Media
0
Likes
12
Points
183
Sexuality
No Response
Ohboy, another Dead Thread Revival.

For me? Extreme turnoff, on me or on anyone else. They look ugly, they feel ugly - if I want to run my hands over some hardware I'll stick 'em in a bucket of bolts - and, perhaps worst of all, nowadays they're so bland and unimaginative, they belong only on slavish followers of fashion.

I'll go along with hardware stuck through earlobes, if it's so inconspicuous that I don't notice it. Anywhere else at all? No thanks.

OBLIGATORY DISCLAIMER - personal opinion only, blah blah.
 

missbec

Just Browsing
Joined
Jun 6, 2006
Posts
224
Media
0
Likes
0
Points
161
Location
Australia - WA
Sexuality
50% Straight, 50% Gay
Gender
Female
Thank you all for your input and this thread has indeed been REVIVED!
Ah, well i started this thread a good while ago and should mention i do not have any of my piercings in anymore partly as i was tired of them and the attention and my breasts piercings grew out.

Yes, tired of attention!:p
-bec
 

FrenumFellow

Just Browsing
Joined
Oct 25, 2006
Posts
90
Media
0
Likes
0
Points
151
Location
Rocky Mountains, USA
Sexuality
80% Straight, 20% Gay
Gender
Male
I don't much care for surface piercings in part because, as has been said, they tend to be red and irritated, and not to last; and I just find them artificial and mechanical against lovely female skin. Back corsets are really sexy looking though, but of course have the same problems as other surface piercings.

And I find lots of facial piercings both to be unattractive for similar reasons of providing the wrong sort of contrast for the beautiful lines of a woman's face, and also very importantly to get in the way of physical contact. Though pierced nostrils are pretty and sexy, whether studs or rings.

Multiple and unconventional earring piercings can be quite attractive when not too large or overdone.

I do find thick - but not too large diameter - nipple rings to be very sexy. Thick rings are also more inviting to play with, because they spread force out better in sensitive tissues than "cheese cutter" thickness rings, and so they're more likely to cause pleasure than pain. Barbells are OK, and I'm always glad to offer to swap them out for some nice rings at playtime.....

Navel piercings are very attractive to me. Though some of the really big jewelry pieces for them over-do it, in my opinion.

Genital piercings, as long as they're not excessive, are also really pretty and a real turn-on, both in the clit hood and the labia. I think the various hood piercings are particularly great for women who actually get needed additional stimulation from them. As with nipple jewelry, I like to see them thick so they have a real visual effect.

I can't imagine anything sexier than playing with some nipple rings, and getting glimpses of a woman's genital jewelry as my own piercings slide against the sensitive spots inside her.....

I also admire tattoos that are artfully done, which generally means not too many or too big, though some larger pieces are real works of art.

I'm surprised to see so many negative comments from men. I hope that's not representative. What do women think of men's piercings?

All in all, I think can be very attractive if a woman has made a canvas (or bodyart installation) of her body, and can inspire a man....


FF
 

Riven650

Sexy Member
Joined
Apr 29, 2006
Posts
1,599
Media
3
Likes
97
Points
268
Location
Norfolk UK
Sexuality
100% Straight, 0% Gay
Gender
Male
I wouldn't mind your scars missec. I'm sure I'd find them interesting. I can understand why you asked the question though. Piercings have been a turn on for me ever since I can remember. I have worried that by having piercings. I knew that when I got my first little nipple piercing at age 18, I was effectively making myself less attractive to a sector of society, but I did it anyway. I did it for myself, and I did it because it turned ME on. My piercings have given me pleasure, even though that pleasure was mostly to do with the adventure aspect of trying something new. Some piercings I abandoned as a bad idea (ie. they were troublesome or uncomfortable; some I abandoned because I became bored with them. I now only have a small ring in my left ear lobe and another my right nipple, but my adventures with body art have left me with a bifurcate cockhead and scars left over from several penis piercings. My nipples are also somewhat larger than average due to the build up of scar tissue (after 2 or 3 piercings in each over the years). I know that, in theory at least, these things would be a turn off to many, but in my experience people respond to you as a whole person and if you have a positive body image and look after yourself, that's what people find attractive. This is why a lot of 'ugly' people find partners easily when some of their 'attractive' friends remain single. You have to avoid the trap of looking in the mirror and wondering how may people might find you attractive. You do this by learning to like yourself, value yourself. You only get one body; keep it fit and healthy, and have fun with it.