I met up with this beautiful Thai women this past week. We had a dinner date tonight, and then back to my place for a nightcap. One thing lead to another, and when she got Mr. Happy out of my briefs, she said, "no way, it's too big"! After regaining my composure, I said okay, we don't have to do anything that your not comfortable with. I just found this shocking . This is the first time that this type of situation has ever occured. I am not hung huge by any means, maybe a bit thick, but have never been turned down because of apparent size. I don't look at this as a negative( actually a self-esteem boooster), but I can now relate to what some of the big guys here must encounter a lot more frequently than us average+ guys do.