Hello Ladies of LPSG, I'll first start by saying this is not a pity party, a rallying cry to get women on here to screw me silly (Although I wouldn't mind, but thats not the point). In September of this year I will be turning 30 and alas I am still single. Allow me to provide some background info: My life to this point has always revolved around me making every single effort to better myself and to create an environment and home that would be appealing to any woman to look at me and think "Wow, he's really got his act together". After graduating from college I have essentially put the pedal to the metal elevating my salary and career to a point where if I were to meet someone and have a family, my wife would have the choice to either continue working after we would have children, or be a stay at home mom and live comfortably. Since then I've been able to have a house built, financially secure myself, and pretty much brace for the opportunity of a family.By no means am I stating that I expect my wife to be barefoot, pregnant, and in the kitchen for the rest of her life. But I have very much sought to work hard so that the option is there if she would so decide. I do recall a few years ago an episode of Sex in the City which featured the "Marrying Man", which is essentially a guy who so desperately wants to get married, but all of the girls simply can't handle that. "Too much commitment up front", "If I date this guy I'll feel obligated to be with him for the rest of time". These are just certain pitfalls I'm falling into and I'm seeking guidance out. As I approach 30, it has become more and more trying on me to find a woman willing to settle down. More and more I see people marrying at a younger age, and I can't help but think that I've missed the boat and am doomed to a life alone. The bar/club scene is usually filled with women looking for one night stands, women with baggage (and plenty of it), or folks I'm just not plain into. Speed Dating, EHarmony, Match, PlentyofFish, etc. have also been tools that I have used to "put myself out there" so to speak with no avail. I suppose thats probably one of the main reasons I joined LPSG to start. Initially I thought, "Well hey, if I can fill out my cock resume (photo gallery), I'll get some hits for sure! Fuck yeah! However, with age comes wisdom, and realization that perhaps this is not the site to find "The One", and maybe it's just a resource guide and an organized version of craiglist to get some ass from anyone brave enough to step up to the plate. With that said, this is my question: Ladies, what is your recommendation for as I turn 30 to venture out and find not just someone, but a person with a good foundation thats looking for the same in return? Thanks for your advice in advance.