I have several fantasies that remain for better words un-filled. .I'm married to a very understanding woman, and our sex life is great and getting better. But recently my desire to accomplish a few remaining fantasies is comming to the fore and nearly an obsession. I'm Bi sexual, and i have had monogomous type relationships with both men and women in the past, also threesomes, and moresomes. I joined a wife swapping club in the UK, and various other things. But My experience with men is limited, in that I have only had full on sex with a few men, and I would like to broaden that experience. I've had several anal type fantasies, fisting and that sort of thing. Maybe its extreme I don't Know. So facing facts , I joined Lpsg because I do like cocks, my own, and others. and it seems a fairly normal thing for men, and less so for women. I'd also like to watch my wife with some one else, and she is interested to do that too The problem is finding someone to do this with. I'm in South africa, and attitudes here are conservative and cautious to say the least. Aids plays a major part in peoples reluctance to do what the actually want to do. For me the web cam thing isn't my cup of tea, although its nice to watch a young stud from time to time playing with his amazing cock. So can any one tell me if there is a good cantact web site off line meetings in South Africa. Member ship on this site is so vast it would take literally days to track down and contact other like minded people on here in the same country. So may be if you thought of planning a holiday to some of the nicest beeches in the world, you could give us a shout. or at least give some feed back on the dilema.