I've gone a long time with having no succes with women at all. I was anxious, paranoid, withdrawn and couldn't formulate my thoughts. Now that this is over and I'm an extraverted, talkative narcisist and my workout's effects are showing, I'm getting a ton of attention and it's great!
..but now I'm in the position where I'm turning girls down and not just girls, but really sweet and awesome girls. I just can't. There's this girl who is awesome in every way, but I'm just not physically attracted to her in the least. It just doesn't work. She's messaging me a lot on facebook and was kinda clingy when I met her at the club last Saturday... which is kinda getting annoying.. but she's still a great girl.. and I just hate the fact that I've got to turn her down.
I don't think I'm god's gift to women and that they're massively missing out without me, that's really not it. I just really suck at disappointing people, even if it's slightly. And I just know how much it sucks to be turned down if you're really into someone.
What would the best, least hurtful way to turn her down be? Someone told me to just say 'I really like having a friend like you' but dunno if that's the best way to go?