Two interesting documentaries about men and their penis

[1141702]

When you think RIC is wrong it puts you on a trip... psychology. For me anyway. NOT starting a RIC debate.

Irreversible and not your choice.

 

[554279]

When you think RIC is wrong it puts you on a trip... psychology. For me anyway. NOT starting a RIC debate.

Irreversible and not your choice.

As I am not circumcision aficionado forgive me for not knowing who RIC is; but my comment was meant in jest, humor, you know hahaha.

But if it helps my cock is intact because I fear sharp objects, having been stabbed a few times

 

[1141702]

As I am not circumcision aficionado forgive me for not knowing who RIC is; but my comment was meant in jest, humor, you know hahaha.

But if it helps my cock is intact because I fear sharp objects, having been stabbed a few times

Was not a reply to you. However RIC = routine infant circumcision.

 

[englad]

I think women obsess more about weight than breasts, but that’s just my own observation. I’ve certainly been subjected to way too many lunch time discussions on obsessive diets and maybe two or three beauty boob discussions. The only times breasts seriously come up is when they cause pain - too large, breastfeeding, cancer. Beauty, almost never.

I would never claim to be the world's biggest expert on insecurities that can affect women. But I found that to be the case so much from what I've personally witnessed. I remember working in an office that was about 3/4 female. Every single day there were comments about new fad diets, new ranges of fat and/or sugar free confectionary, new fangled exercise or dance routines, talk of gym memberships, talk of getting ready for their summer body etc. I wish I had received £1 each time that happened, my goodness I'd be wealthy by now.

 

[1141702]

I would never claim to be the world's biggest expert on insecurities that can affect women. But I found that to be the case so much from what I've personally witnessed. I remember working in an office that was about 3/4 female. Every single day there were comments about new fad diets, new ranges of fat and/or sugar free confectionary, new fangled exercise or dance routines. I wish I had received £1 each time that happened, my goodness I'd be wealthy by now.

I feel like they are worrying for nothing.

 

[LaFemme]

I would never claim to be the world's biggest expert on insecurities that can affect women. But I found that to be the case so much from what I've personally witnessed. I remember working in an office that was about 3/4 female. Every single day there were comments about new fad diets, new ranges of fat and/or sugar free confectionary, new fangled exercise or dance routines, talk of gym memberships, talk of getting ready for their summer body etc. I wish I had received £1 each time that happened, my goodness I'd be wealthy by now.

Totally my experience. Kind of puts me off my poutine!

 

[englad]

Oh, kudos for the awesome jab at his weight even though it's not relevant in the least.

I agreed with everything else you wrote and I completely feel you on the sentiment with this one in terms of it being an unpleasant jibe. But there is a connection in the sense that some of the penis is internal and some of the external part can get buried under groin fat. I think it wouldn't have made much difference, perhaps half an inch to an absolute maximum of an inch. That still would be in the smallish range, but it could have been enough of a psychological boost to make him feel more secure about his sexuality and body.

Totally my experience. Kind of puts me off my poutine!

Fuck that for a game of marbles, Poutine is literally foodgasm central! They do a couple varieties of it (no idea how close it is to the Canadian original, probably pales into insignificance compared with that one) at this chain here called Frittenwerk, and OMFG love it.

 

[englad]

I feel like they are worrying for nothing.

No indeed, because not every straight/bi man is after a barbie doll figure, I know so many of my straight male friends that like a bit of curvaciousness on a woman, women naturally have a bit more body fat than men do. But so are guys on penises (or penes) to a large extent, and in that case there's even less you can do and even if you tried you might fuck your own genitals up.

I have had experiences with men that get so hung up about it that it totally ruins the experience. One of them was a perfectly good average length but a bit on the thin side. I didn't get an SPH vibe off him but he was constantly sounding really down by constantly trying to compare his with mine. I just kept trying to say "we're bound to differ down there because we're different men, and men vary loads. I'm in way more of an unusual size category than you are, don't get hung up on something you can't change." Apart from anything else, aesthetics even down there are more important to me, and frankly he had a pretty organ anyway.

 

[1141702]

No indeed, because not every straight/bi man is after a barbie doll figure, I know so many of my straight male friends that like a bit of curvaciousness on a woman, women naturally have a bit more body fat than men do. But so are guys on penises (or penes) to a large extent, and in that case there's even less you can do and even if you tried you might fuck your own genitals up.

I have had experiences with men that get so hung up about it that it totally ruins the experience. One of them was a perfectly good average length but a bit on the thin side. I didn't get an SPH vibe off him but he was constantly sounding really down by constantly trying to compare his with mine. I just kept trying to say "we're bound to differ down there because we're different men, and men vary loads. I'm in way more of an unusual size category than you are, don't get hung up on something you can't change." Apart from anything else, aesthetics even down there are more important to me, and frankly he had a pretty organ anyway.

I totally agree. As for woman, curves and not a plastic face covered with 10 pounds of makeup is nice to see.

It is a shame that self doubt of one's body produces so much unneeded havoc.

 

[englad]

I totally agree. As for woman, curves and not a plastic face covered with 10 pounds of makeup is nice to see.

It is a shame that self doubt of one's body produces so much unneeded havoc.

I will add the caveat though that I probably shouldn't have done the helicopter in front of him once, but my intention with that one was to turn him on more rather than make him insecure.

 

[1141702]

I will add the caveat though that I probably shouldn't have done the helicopter in front of him once, but my intention with that one was to turn him on more rather than make him insecure.

Its really sad that he couldnt be happy with himself! The helicopter prolly didnt help.

But I am guilty of self doubt, just not in the sex department.

 

[englad]

Its really sad that he couldnt be happy with himself! The helicopter prolly didnt help.

But I am guilty of self doubt, just not in the sex department.

No, exactly. But to be honest only did that because of the sort of reactions/comments I'd got from other men beforehand. I don't think there's any issue in getting particularly turned on by say a larger size (I'm not gonna deny I like watching well endowed male solo videos and enjoy it when the other guy is big too), but sometimes with a few gay/bi guys that really can overstep into a creepy, obsessive level. I remember one case a few years ago dancing in a club in Dublin with a really hot short Italian guy (so yes I was aroused) whilst wearing tight jeans, and I had some creep completely uninvitedly walk up and rub my bulge, gently but still. At the time I felt it as a bit of an ego stroke, but looking back now I find that really creepy.

 

[1141702]

No, exactly. But to be honest only did that because of the sort of reactions/comments I'd got from other men beforehand. I don't think there's any issue in getting particularly turned on by say a larger size (I'm not gonna deny I like watching well endowed male solo videos and enjoy it when the other guy is big too), but sometimes with a few gay/bi guys that really can overstep into a creepy, obsessive level. I remember one case a few years ago dancing in a club in Dublin with a really hot short Italian guy (so yes I was aroused) whilst wearing tight jeans, and I had some creep completely uninvitedly walk up and rub my bulge, gently but still. At the time I felt it as a bit of an ego stroke, but looking back now I find that really creepy.

Same size is cool to see and experience, but I am more for the getting him off. Not the size.

Creepers. Lol agreed.

 

[englad]

Same size is cool to see and experience, but I am more for the getting him off. Not the size.

Creepers. Lol agreed.

Exactly. I don't really care what size, but the aesthetics though, yep that can play a big role. Some really can be weird looking or ugly.

 

[LaFemme]

I agreed with everything else you wrote and I completely feel you on the sentiment with this one in terms of it being an unpleasant jibe. But there is a connection in the sense that some of the penis is internal and some of the external part can get buried under groin fat. I think it wouldn't have made much difference, perhaps half an inch to an absolute maximum of an inch. That still would be in the smallish range, but it could have been enough of a psychological boost to make him feel more secure about his sexuality and body.



Fuck that for a game of marbles, Poutine is literally foodgasm central! They do a couple varieties of it (no idea how close it is to the Canadian original, probably pales into insignificance compared with that one) at this chain here called Frittenwerk, and OMFG love it.

I love poutine! I don’t indulge often, but a good poutine with beef gravy and squeaky curds? Nothing like it!

Weight for women is serious business. Personally, I know the struggle. I lost a great deal of weight for health reasons (diagnosed with an illness). It took me about three years to drop enough weight to be considered slightly above average weight. I didn’t diet, just watched my intake and increased activity. Slow, but sure. My lunchtime friends kept wanting my secret to the dramatic weight loss. They really didn’t want to hear 30 minutes of walking and eating carefully. They wanting drama! Injections! Powders, shakes! Deprivation! Nope. Couldn’t give it to them.

But I will say that men were brutal to me when I was heavier. I wasn’t even obese, just heavy. I was on a a couple of dating sites and had men contact me telling me I had no right to be there. And I wasn’t the only one. It was awful. Other women I knew had the same experience. Male profiles usually state they want thin or athletic women.

I’ll always be curvy. Never thin, never athletic looking. I have boobs forever. Alas, take me as I am. I’m a fun, fantastic person. I no longer care about relationships, but it’s unfortunate that so many males made that judgment call. They kind of missed out when I was ready for something.

 

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I love poutine! I don’t indulge often, but a good poutine with beef gravy and squeaky curds? Nothing like it!

Weight for women is serious business. Personally, I know the struggle. I lost a great deal of weight for health reasons (diagnosed with an illness). It took me about three years to drop enough weight to be considered slightly above average weight. I didn’t diet, just watched my intake and increased activity. Slow, but sure. My lunchtime friends kept wanting my secret to the dramatic weight loss. They really didn’t want to hear 30 minutes of walking and eating carefully. They wanting drama! Injections! Powders, shakes! Deprivation! Nope. Couldn’t give it to them.

But I will say that men were brutal to me when I was heavier. I wasn’t even obese, just heavy. I was on a a couple of dating sites and had men contact me telling me I had no right to be there. And I wasn’t the only one. It was awful. Other women I knew had the same experience. Male profiles usually state they want thin or athletic women.

I’ll always be curvy. Never thin, never athletic looking. I have boobs forever. Alas, take me as I am. I’m a fun, fantastic person. I no longer care about relationships, but it’s unfortunate that so many males made that judgment call. They kind of missed out when I was ready for something.

I'm sorry you had to deal with those assholes.

 

[englad]

I love poutine! I don’t indulge often, but a good poutine with beef gravy and squeaky curds? Nothing like it!

One of the ones I saw I think they use creme fraiche too, they called it "Montreal style". Which part of Canada are you from btw? I wouldn't mind tips on Vancouver if you know the city.

Weight for women is serious business. Personally, I know the struggle. I lost a great deal of weight for health reasons (diagnosed with an illness). It took me about three years to drop enough weight to be considered slightly above average weight. I didn’t diet, just watched my intake and increased activity. Slow, but sure. My lunchtime friends kept wanting my secret to the dramatic weight loss. They really didn’t want to hear 30 minutes of walking and eating carefully. They wanting drama! Injections! Powders, shakes! Deprivation! Nope. Couldn’t give it to them.

But I will say that men were brutal to me when I was heavier. I wasn’t even obese, just heavy. I was on a a couple of dating sites and had men contact me telling me I had no right to be there. And I wasn’t the only one. It was awful. Other women I knew had the same experience. Male profiles usually state they want thin or athletic women.

I'm so sorry to hear you had a lot of really brutal experiences with men for your weight both offline and online, it is really pathetic and insensitive. Not that it would matter, but I doubt many of the ones who did were exactly adonises themselves. Women unfortunately do feel lots of pressure from the heterosexual male gaze, and unfortunately that is at the end of the day where this particular insecurity comes from. I have seen similar anxieties with so many female friends of mine. I think the only physical reversal you really ever see the other way round is a lot of women's preference for tall men, but it's nowhere near as all encompassing or harsh and certainly doesn't trigger the same level of body image anxiety. And I'm sure you've seen what the gay male gaze is like if you have seen the pics and magazines lying around gay bars (PS The Adonis Factor is a great doc for this one). Fuck all those guys that said that to you, apart from anything else, different men (just like different women) have different tastes, so it's incredibly ignorant and cruel to tell you you had no right to be on the site.

I used to also be heavy too, but I think that was more to do with being so closeted, I didn't really give a fuck about sex before that happened. So in my case it was a combo of living in a country where I was eating very little meat, no dairy and walking each day that caused the big shift for me. Then later trying to keep it up because of the pressure, which I've mainly done to be fair but I still vary between being slender to a bit muscly, with a slight layer of padding on occasion.

Plus btw, biggest factor for me is how much alcohol I am drinking at any one time.

I’ll always be curvy. Never thin, never athletic looking. I have boobs forever.

No but end of the day, I honestly think that is how women are naturally supposed to look anyway. At the end of the day this whole "I want thin with massive boobs" look is ridiculous, generally speaking that body type is super rare anyway. Not knocking women who have different builds to that, everyone varies physically. OK, I'm speaking objectively of course, as I can't speak subjectively on the topic really, but the most gorgeous woman I have ever met is 6' tall, half-Russian American girl who is a plus size model. Absolute stunner, and 0 fucks were given for the unrealistic female body ideals under the modern heterosexual male gaze.

Alas, take me as I am. I’m a fun, fantastic person. I no longer care about relationships, but it’s unfortunate that so many males made that judgment call. They kind of missed out when I was ready for something.

Their loss, not yours. You be you, boo.

As for the relationships, isn't it really lovely sometimes not dealing with all that drama?

 

[LaFemme]

One of the ones I saw I think they use creme fraiche too, they called it "Montreal style". Which part of Canada are you from btw? I wouldn't mind tips on Vancouver if you know the city.



I'm so sorry to hear you had a lot of really brutal experiences with men for your weight both offline and online, it is really pathetic and insensitive. Not that it would matter, but I doubt many of the ones who did were exactly adonises themselves. Women unfortunately do feel lots of pressure from the heterosexual male gaze, and unfortunately that is at the end of the day where this particular insecurity comes from. I have seen similar anxieties with so many female friends of mine. I think the only physical reversal you really ever see the other way round is a lot of women's preference for tall men, but it's nowhere near as all encompassing or harsh and certainly doesn't trigger the same level of body image anxiety. And I'm sure you've seen what the gay male gaze is like if you have seen the pics and magazines lying around gay bars (PS The Adonis Factor is a great doc for this one). Fuck all those guys that said that to you, apart from anything else, different men (just like different women) have different tastes, so it's incredibly ignorant and cruel to tell you you had no right to be on the site.

I used to also be heavy too, but I think that was more to do with being so closeted, I didn't really give a fuck about sex before that happened. So in my case it was a combo of living in a country where I was eating very little meat, no dairy and walking each day that caused the big shift for me. Then later trying to keep it up because of the pressure, which I've mainly done to be fair but I still vary between being slender to a bit muscly, with a slight layer of padding on occasion.

Plus btw, biggest factor for me is how much alcohol I am drinking at any one time.



No but end of the day, I honestly think that is how women are naturally supposed to look anyway. At the end of the day this whole "I want thin with massive boobs" look is ridiculous, generally speaking that body type is super rare anyway. Not knocking women who have different builds to that, everyone varies physically. OK, I'm speaking objectively of course, as I can't speak subjectively on the topic really, but the most gorgeous woman I have ever met is 6' tall, half-Russian American girl who is a plus size model. Absolute stunner, and 0 fucks were given for the unrealistic female body ideals under the modern heterosexual male gaze.




Their loss, not yours. You be you, boo.

As for the relationships, isn't it really lovely sometimes not dealing with all that drama?

I am from the west (it’s the best!), but I don’t live in B.C. I used to live in Vancouver, though and it’s delightful. It’s gotten really expensive, but it’s a great city. I loved living there. The ocean, the mountains, the restaurants, shopping, the people? What’s not to love? It’s just really pricey. I’m hoping to visit a friend on the Island in the next month, and that’s crazy beautiful, too. I need a little r & r.

I think gay males might have it worse than women when it comes to physical expectations. One of my best friends is such a great guy and he just can’t find anyone. He’s a bit of a bear, but not enough to be a real bear, if you know what I mean. He’s a niche product. Too smart, loves jazz, doesn’t watch TV. Best cook in the world. Men are tough on him. The gays I know who are “successful” tended to be too good looking. Very fit. Makes me mad. Maybe I’m wrong, though. It’s not my world. I just visit.

I am happy not dealing with relationships. I know what each day brings. I never say never, though. Still, I don’t think I’m built for them. My life is pretty darn good. If a person loves and is loved, that’s pretty satisfying.

 

[sodominsane]

Why do people keep telling me this? I'm certainly flattered! I just hate ignorance and bullies. Thank you very much

I'm on board to...your pretty cool

 

[sodominsane]

My penis is a stickler for formalities, he prefers "My Penis and I". I thought about circumcision recently just because the little prick can be so critical.

Your penis is way to critical.....he's kinda a dick