two mates masturbating

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  1. Water dragon

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    I have heard great stories from a lot of people with their amazing masturbation sessions with friends; How do I ask or know what type to ask of friend to do this with?, is it something that just happens or what is the something I have to work on and set up?

    Does the majority of guys want secretly want to bond on this level with a best mate?

    How it did happen for you and how should I try to get to this level with a best mate?
     
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    Just ask him if he would allow you to touch his penis.
     
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    My limited experience comes from way back when in Junior High School.

    We were both in the detention room with a half wall of plaster and the top half of glass.

    We were sitting facing the outside where the Monitor (A Human Teacher) could see us.

    We were talking about sex and such and soon we both became hard inside our jeans. We each worked ourselves off. It was a real neat experience. Did the Monitor know what was going on? We never got in trouble, but then again the Monitor may have known and realized that we needed to get our dicks some relief.

    I do not recall the sex of the Monitor.

    Did we ever do it again. If I recall correctly, a few more times.

    Part of maturing.
     
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    My advice is just have a few Victoria's and start talking Sex and it will either happen or not. If by chance it does lay back and enjoy knowing you can always say " Boy was I drunk last night "....
     
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    That's the best way to go. It may or may not lead that way, but if it does, it should be cool.

    If you are browsing porn or something or you are watching it, you could try to let him know that you are getting super horny and can't hold back at all and have to masturbate. There are times when you can manage to pull your cock out and start beating off. If he's open minded, may get an urge to join you. It was kind of like that with one of my friends. We were both horny and started watching some porn for fun. Not long after, we got super hard and were rubbing ourselves through our pants, then we decided to just full on go at it, so it escalated to us getting our pants off, caressing our dicks through our underwear, then it got to us pulling them out then getting fully nude. We even got to touch eachother :)
     
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    That's what happened with a friend of mine once. While watching porn, he said he needed to take care of himself, and did I mind? Of course I didn't, it's what I hoped for (plus, I knew he was gay anyway, so going into the evening I kind of expected something might happen, although he didn't know I was bi--too bad I was so repressed). Anyway, once he whipped it out, I followed along, and we jacked each other for a while. We had more open fun several times after that. We were both adults at the time, by the way. My first time fooling around with a guy was in high school, and how that happened was quite a different story, and unlikely to work out the same when you and your friend are adult.

    If you have a good friend and add booze and porn as mentioned above, and both are horny, your chances improve, I'd say. Or you could try to have a more open conversation about sex without playing this game, and see where that leads. I guess it depends on the kind of friendship you have with the other guy, and what kind of friendship you want to develop.
     
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    I think your friend would have to be a really GOOD Friend before you even thought about it because he would want to trust that you wouldnt say anything to anyone about what went on. The way it happened for me was I had tagged along with a friend one night while he was working as a security gurad driving around to various locations and making sure the standing guards were where they needed to be. Anyways we were BS'n the whole night talking about our X gf's for a while and how long its been since either one of us has gotten any action. Once his shift was over we went back to his place and watched some TV for a bit then decided to shower before we went to bed so he went then me. When I came out he was in the living room doing his sit ups as he usually but this time he was naked which wasn't a shocker since we've seen eachother nude before. After his sit ups he goes into the roomand hops into bed a few minutes go by then finally we start making small talk about whatever was on tv and then a Girls Gone Wild commercial came on which started the whole sex talk again and before you knew it we were both hard, me in boxers and him butt naked. I don't really remember what was said but there was some mutual jackin and bj's going on. I remember thinking this is wrong thw whole time but couldn't stop even when he said "I'm cumming" and shot a huge load then went to bed and nothing was said the rest of the night. The morning we woke up and just kinda laid there and was like ummm so what happend... I remember I was really upset because of what I had done as was he but he did say it was the best bj he has ever had. Once the initial shock was over we laughed about it and did it again that night and for a few years until we finally went our seperate ways.
     
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    I think if you're going to do it with anyone, it should be your best mate who you trust and are close to. Makes sense to me.
     
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    It happens because he wants it to happen, just as you want it to happen. Cock talk, suggestions, self feel, he self feels, feel each other through pants, unzip him, he unzips you, you each reach in,------and you both are off to a new wonderful new sexual experience!
     
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    I do this with partners/boyfriends.
     
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    My experience is that it always starts with watching porn together. It's also not terribly common, so don't hold your breath.
     
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    I did this for the first time the other day. My best friend stayed the night and we put it on porn (we were on seperate couches.) I picked up a pillow and starting beating behind it. He looked over and was a little freaked out, but he started beating his. We both had ours still in our pants, then i pulled mine out and kept beating. We both had pillows hiding it so all you could see was the pillows and legs shaking :)...We kept asking each other how it was going and if we had pulled it out of our pants yet. I pulled mine out about halfway through because i can't beat off in my pants very easily. In the end i think he had his out too cuz i snuck a peek and thought i saw his dick in the dark. After about an hour and a half of this, he went to the bathroom to piss and we were done after that. He swore he didn't blow and i believe him but i wish he had. i hope it happens again...maybe without a pillow or even more than just beating off in the same room ;)
     
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    I jerked off with a mate a couple of times. It was a lot of fun, we we're watching porn together and he initiated.

    If you want this to happen i suggest you just put some porn on while you're mates around and suggest it. Making it a contest (to see who can cum first or last) helps too.
     
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    Did the mutual jo sessions with alot of my teenage buddies while in junior and senior high. Out of college, a bunch of us guys who worked in the same office worked out together in the evenings when the gym was closed. I had a key so we could go anytime after work. None of us considered ourselves to be gay, a few of us knew we were bi, but we all joined in with the jo sessions. Getting all pumped up in the gym and flexing our muscles while in our underwear was just a prelude to the mutual jo sessions we'd have. Guys know how to handle another guy's equipment better than the ladies, or at least that's been my experience.
     
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    That sounds just like a porno I watched a few wees ago. :tongue:
     
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    I started mutual masturbation with my brother when we were in teenagers. We still do it with each other nearly 40 years later. Last weekend my brother and sister in-law were over with another couple we know. The six of us frequently have group sex together.

    My sister in-law told us how she had recently run across her son's jacking off by the pool together. She had let the boys be and left to run some errands. Now the 3 girls wanted to watch my brother and I, and our other friend jerk each other off.

    We three guys stripped down and started to really get into it. And the women were equally turned on. As we stroked each others cocks the women started to enjoy each other. What a sight 3 husbands stroking it for 3 wifes, eating each other out for us men to watch. After we all came the first time we continued the evening enjoy each other with all six of us in our king bed.
     
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    I've done it with a few straight guys. It's interesting to see what factors make someone attracted to adding that element into a friendship.

    Trust is the way to go.
     
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    i got some buddies who like to watch porn together, and it usually ends up as a group bareass jerkoff. in some cultures, it's not that unusual. besides, i think most guys like to watch those money shots in porn vids. why not close up?
     
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    Holy Shit!!! That is wrong on so many levels. What the fuck kind of family is this? I can't believe that so many sick fucks inhabit one family. I call one really sick bullshit fantasy.
     
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