Ok, so I went on my first date in a year and I came to the realization just from the actions of my date there is a possibility that he may be a top, and that would not be a problem for most except I am a top. So has anyone had any experience. Is this possible relationship doomed? I know we both are into each other on a sexual level but we naturally have a relaxation where we can just lie next to each other and talk for hours. Sex probably will not happen until the 4th date.