i have just started my first relationship with a guy and have moved interstate for him. i have a few questions for the anyone who can help. 1. he is a top and so am i, all his friends know hes a top and i am worried that they think that i am a bottom. is it normal for two guys to be in a relationship and be a top? also do gay guys judge people people walking down the street and say he must be a bottom and he must be the top? my partner says that doesnot happen. 2. living in sydney the gay community is small and everywhere he and i walk he runs into guys in the street he has fucked and that does not happen in the straight communty on a regular basis. on average he will see 2-3 guys on a weekend. does this happen to anyone else and if so how do your partners react? 3. is there anyone else in a relationship that the two people are tops? i have spoken to him about it and he says thats just the way it is and my friends dont think that your a bottom. little help guys as i am feeling more and more out of place as time goes on.