Ok, I'm about to go to bed, it's kinda late. In two weeks I'll be again on college, so I'm trying to recover a decent schedule... I think this forum is great. You can post your problems in here, and you'll get an impartial vision, and maybe some help... This is I guess very like those girls questioning a doctor at those kind of magazines we've all "borrowed" from our sisters... So, guys, that's my "problem". First of all, I don't have friends at College. I mean, of course I have friends, but not at College. I guess I don't fit with people my age, so I'm always with peolpe between 25 and 30 or so. So, when I'm at class, at College, I'm always alone, and I rather speak to anyone, except from some "hi" and "bye". But that's not the point, I mean, call me what you like, but I like it this way. I'm a "watching" person, more than a "talking" one. But, of corse, here it comes the "problem". There is this guy. I guess he's very like me. He's almost alone everytime at class, rather speak to anyone, he's cute, he just looks totally "interesting" to me, and I've never "felt" this "I need to know this guy" before. We had this subject, in which the whole class had to write down his e-mail adress on a list. And, since I am this mad, I just had to look at his address and write it down. I wondered for a week what to do with it, and I finally e-mailed him a nonsense question "Where you the guy reading Jung the other day?" (I know, my social habilities are very low... ) After that, we exchanged almost 20 e-mails, asking and answering questions. I didn't tell him who I was, and I just told him I was a classmate. We talked about a lot of things. First it was him asking me just to find out who I was, but after several e-mail, we ended up exchanging "deep" thoughts. All that stuff that two Art History students do: share book recommendations, talk about some artists, talk about museums... that stuff... All this began past February, and we exchanged e-mails through March, and April, when I finally told him who I was. He was surprised, he remebered the few conversations we've had, and he told me to say hi in person the next time I was at College. Several personal problemas (like moving to another place) kept me away from College from about 3 weeks, and, when I finally where there, and we see each other, he ran away. Not literally, but he acted as if he didn't knew me at all. And, watching that kind of behaviour, I didn't even dare to say "hi". I had my finals and I saw him several times at the library, at class, at the café... But he behaved as if I was transparent. In July, before I went on holidays, I wrote him another e-mail, apologizing for if he was bothered or something. He never wrote back. I'm about to be back at college, and I guess we're gonna have a long year of "I look but I don't see". so, that's when the "what should I do" cames across... Anyway, now I think he hadn't deserved all my concers and atentions... So, for me it's not a problem, I won't cry for him. But, either way, I just can't stand this situation... Any help?