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a roll of cash and a nice bulge dont hurt either.i knew a john travolta look a like in the 80's,that couldnt get a lady because of his cocky arrogant approach.also rumor had it he was very small!i mean beyond TINY!kinda kills a guys social life to have a cocky attitude and a little dick.
 

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a roll of cash and a nice bulge dont hurt either.i knew a john travolta look a like in the 80's,that couldnt get a lady because of his cocky arrogant approach.also rumor had it he was very small!i mean beyond TINY!kinda kills a guys social life to have a cocky attitude and a little dick.

I worked with a guy that said women spell "love" M-O-N-E-Y. Just slightly jaded.
 

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This thread makes me sad... :confused:

I just got introduced to thid really amazing looking woman who is well bred and highly intelligent. She only really saw me from maybe 50 yards away the whole night and when I got within a few feet of her, I could just fucking hear her expectations slink to the ground. She changed her body language and told me that she had to go as soon as she got a good look at me... oh well... that's life!

Some other person said that the beautiful people should be thankful for people like us, there is some truth to that. I'm not ugly to the point where it would elicit sympathy from people but I have unconventional looks that have little to no value in the South. I look like I am from a foreign country and not a good one like Germany or Spain. I think about my lack of looks alot, I used to be pre-occupied with it when I found out that I was ugly... it was initially shocking and quite disturbing, but the pain has dissolved into a low ache that does not tear at my inner being anymore.

I say fuck it, I am gonna try and enjoy the rest of my life, even if it is alone and without the affections of a female. This crap has taken enough of my days from me already.
well,she wasnt much of a lady to treat you as if you had the plague.whats in a persons heart is what really matters.theres someone for EVERYONE! dont give up.:wink:
 

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Whatireallywant, that is interesting because I never go for the extreme ends myself. I prefer a lady with some curves, but not overly curvy. But having said that, personality is the deal maker or breaker.

I'm glad to hear that you are enjoying the activities for the sack of the activities. I think the key is to get in situations were you can be yourself and the rest will fall in place at some point. It may take a while, but like you said, you are enjoying yourself.

Hey thanks! I probably have a bit of curves, just not what people would think of as a "curvy" woman.

Yeah, being myself is sometimes difficult. I still struggle with worrying what other people will think. It's not as bad as it used to be though.

As for personality that can shine through once you get to know me, I am reminded of a conversation I had with my friend (the one I was in an open LTR with) about this. He said that there is another woman where he lives (a mutual friend of ours) who he could have maybe had a fling with, but he was so used to being around me, when he gets around her, he gets frustrated at her limited interests. He's too used to me with my interests that go all over the place!

Also, you'd think I'd have an easy time meeting men with the interests I have! I've gone to meetings of clubs of my interests and I'm the only woman there! Now the groups I'm in now it's not like that. It depends on the activity. Usually it's pretty close to 50-50.
 

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Hey thanks! I probably have a bit of curves, just not what people would think of as a "curvy" woman.

Yeah, being myself is sometimes difficult. I still struggle with worrying what other people will think. It's not as bad as it used to be though.

As for personality that can shine through once you get to know me, I am reminded of a conversation I had with my friend (the one I was in an open LTR with) about this. He said that there is another woman where he lives (a mutual friend of ours) who he could have maybe had a fling with, but he was so used to being around me, when he gets around her, he gets frustrated at her limited interests. He's too used to me with my interests that go all over the place!

Also, you'd think I'd have an easy time meeting men with the interests I have! I've gone to meetings of clubs of my interests and I'm the only woman there! Now the groups I'm in now it's not like that. It depends on the activity. Usually it's pretty close to 50-50.

It sounds like you just need a bit more confidence. It has taken me a long time to get past my insecurities and hesitations. I still would never approach a woman cold like at a bar or some place similar. On the side of meeting someone at a meeting or club, I suppose you risk the possibilty of rejection. That type of rejection is not as easily dealt with as say a chance meeting at a bar. You still have to face the person when the group meets. Can be uncomfortable. I guess you need to have confidence and trust your judgement.
 

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Sometimes people are attracted to someone that might be ugly to some.

I dated a girl that a lot of my friends did not think was attractive. Girls kept telling me I was hot and could a lot better than her. I knew she was not a knockout. She was a goth girl, a little on the chunky side. I kept hearing from girls, why you dateing her, you can do so much better.

To be truthful I dont know why I was attracted to her, but I was and big time.. She loked amazing naked and I had some amazing sex with her, so sometimes chemicals and other wierd shit can come into the mix.
 

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I was an ugly kid and teenager and still have those hard feelings of being rejected more than accepted because of the way I look. It hurt. Can't deny that. Being a wallflower at dances is not a fun experience. I still don't think I'm very good looking but at least I refuse to let myself be a wallflower anymore. Who cares! I still have those insecurities when approaching people but what is the worst that can happen? Nothing ventured nothing gained, right?

I am always suprised and suspicious when people say that I'm goodlooking because I still have that teenage image of myself that's so ingrained. I am glad I grew into my manhood though. Exercising and flossing helped a lot too. I've found that even if a guy is goodlooking doesn't make him a keeper. Looks may get you to the door but it's what's inside that invites you in. And the inside is a much more worthwhile place.
 

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I was an ugly kid and teenager and still have those hard feelings of being rejected more than accepted because of the way I look. It hurt. Can't deny that. Being a wallflower at dances is not a fun experience. I still don't think I'm very good looking but at least I refuse to let myself be a wallflower anymore. Who cares! I still have those insecurities when approaching people but what is the worst that can happen? Nothing ventured nothing gained, right?

I am always suprised and suspicious when people say that I'm goodlooking because I still have that teenage image of myself that's so ingrained. I am glad I grew into my manhood though. Exercising and flossing helped a lot too. I've found that even if a guy is goodlooking doesn't make him a keeper. Looks may get you to the door but it's what's inside that invites you in. And the inside is a much more worthwhile place.

It's very hard to get over those feelings...even if they are incorrect.
Believe me, I really do know. I have had a bad self image for years.

Not just trying to make you feel better, but seriously, there's nothing wrong with your looks!
 

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Not being good looking ain't all bad, there are other ways seem desirable.
(One lucky pic as an avatar and people actually think you're attractive :redface:)

You seem desirable in many ways, personality not being the least..
(and I think peeps are referring to the bod & cock ensemble in your gallery too, hot stuff :wink: )
 

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I was an ugly kid and teenager and still have those hard feelings of being rejected more than accepted because of the way I look. It hurt. Can't deny that. Being a wallflower at dances is not a fun experience. I still don't think I'm very good looking but at least I refuse to let myself be a wallflower anymore. Who cares! I still have those insecurities when approaching people but what is the worst that can happen? Nothing ventured nothing gained, right?

I am always suprised and suspicious when people say that I'm goodlooking because I still have that teenage image of myself that's so ingrained. I am glad I grew into my manhood though. Exercising and flossing helped a lot too. I've found that even if a guy is goodlooking doesn't make him a keeper. Looks may get you to the door but it's what's inside that invites you in. And the inside is a much more worthwhile place.

People can be very cruel. Teenagers seem to take great delight in inflicting emotional pain. I went through it too. I still bear the scars. Funny thing is I had a great head just a skinny body. Then, I got a great body, and lost it to chemical poisoning. So, I'm skinny again with a decent head. I don't know what it takes to get over the pain Earl. I hope some day you do. I am glad that you have learned to look on the inside and know that's where the value in people exists.
I just hope my personality still attracts people.
 

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Anytime I see an ugly guy who landed a hot chick my auto response is HE MUST HAVE A BIG DICK. Think Christina Aguilera and that ugly husband of hers. But let's be honest, lots of women are golddiggers, so it's possible that these ugly guys are wealthy. Look at Donald Trump. Wait, that's not a good example cos his wife is fugly as well - too much plastic surgery can make an average woman look like she's from outer space.

Anyhow, maybe these guys are just really sweet. I know women who have been screwed over zillions of times by hot assholes and they readily give ugly guys a try. So, ugly guys, don't despair - there are plenty of shitty men out there who are helping you out! They may be hotter than you, but you're probably a better person.
 

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For me it's about the personality. Of course I prefer a man who is physically attractive - I'd be lying if I said I didn't.

Yeah, of course we all want good-looking specimins. :wink: But a personality sure does go a long way. The other thing you really can't dismiss is you have no idea what he does to her in bed. An ugly guy might be stud of the century.
Besides this thing goes both ways. I see hot guys w/ugly broads too. People aren't getting with other people just for how they'd look on a magazine cover.
 

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Anytime I see an ugly guy who landed a hot chick my auto response is HE MUST HAVE A BIG DICK. Think Christina Aguilera and that ugly husband of hers. But let's be honest, lots of women are golddiggers, so it's possible that these ugly guys are wealthy. Look at Donald Trump. Wait, that's not a good example cos his wife is fugly as well - too much plastic surgery can make an average woman look like she's from outer space.

Anyhow, maybe these guys are just really sweet. I know women who have been screwed over zillions of times by hot assholes and they readily give ugly guys a try. So, ugly guys, don't despair - there are plenty of shitty men out there who are helping you out! They may be hotter than you, but you're probably a better person.

Well i hope i find a woman who has been thoroughly abused (no physicaly) by hot guys, and wants to try out an ugly sweet guy like me ^_^

I've actually had quite a few girls, (fairly good looking, alot better than what ive ever been with) tell me that im super sweet and im a great guy and any girl would love to have me. But if this is true, no girl will ever know if she never looks past my face lol.

I have one bit of confidence though, ive had many many girls, tell me i have perfect eyebrows.

Eyebrows. lol, who the hell is attracted to eyebrows? i think the one good looking part is useless. LOL.
 

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Well I don't know. I mean us guys have it easier. Being an ugly guy is probably much easier than being an ugly girl. And 95% of guys are uglier than the ugliest girls anyway so it's really unfair. So that must really blow.
 

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Well I don't know. I mean us guys have it easier. Being an ugly guy is probably much easier than being an ugly girl. And 95% of guys are uglier than the ugliest girls anyway so it's really unfair. So that must really blow.

That is an interesting commentary, although our gay brothers would most likely beg to differ on that point though. This whole thing with money is a mute point, we ALL need money to survive and women have that nesting instinct that makes them notice what could be usefull to them in their comfort. If we wanna talk about gold diggers, we should atleast understand that gold digging can come quite honestly to some women. Those women might have been raised with a scarcity mindset or had parents that ingrained monetary values in their daughters that manufactured an opportunistic child. All we can do is commend the women that choose to love for love's sake and not for a man's monetary value. It is those women who should be showered with love and given anything that you can.

Ugly guys? Well, men have a LOT to offer a woman besides their looks and that will hopefully never change (it could mean the degredation of society). Women are the desired creatures on this earth (prey) and men are just the "hunters". So, it is no wonder why you see ugly men with beautiful women, it is a natural phenomenon!!! Men are not desired for their looks when choosing a mate, there are other qualities that are much more important to the family unit which is what we are ALL trying to recreate whether we like it or not! A man's ability to provide love, warmth, security, strength, and above all, adequate parental skills are the MOST important traits for women to choose their mate... looks come after all of those... and penis size comes in dead LAST! lol!!!!!

Men shouldn't hate on women because their value system is superior to ours...
 

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I know i have seen terribly ugly guys, with smoking hot girls. So i wonder, what is it that an ugly guy has to do to get you to fall for him? Any personal experience? Have any of you ladies got with an ugly guy who was just super charming or somthing, and you just could not resist?

big fat meaty cock, muscles, money, power, fame etc.etc.etc.
i LOVE ugly women that have great bodies.
now one guy i KNOW is butt ugly as a motherfucker is dagreatmalepa. Dagreat is so fucking ugly and is 20+ but so ugly Oats looks 40+ but still kissed a couple times with a beautiful dougla 34B cup bubble butt with thin lips and big nose. she spent a lot of time going to his house/flat/apartment and one day Malepa made his move and kissed her and she loved it so much since he has big fat juicy dick sucking lips, that she did it again and who knows how many more times because her whoring cunt was lonely and wet for attention. her next guy which was a cutie, was a effeminate down low bottom boi. then she went with a another butterface muscular beefcake with abs who lost interest in her very quickly and stared screwing around another chick while still seeing her lol. there was nothing cute about the guy, he could take a good picture or two but she must have really liked that he was clean shaven
 

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If you ever get to New York and walk along Lexington Avenue / Midtown on a Saturday evening there are wayyyyyyyyy to many hott women with less hott men. I have seen : Short, bald, over weight, aesthetically challenged and bad dressers, yet they have are in the company of women out of their league. Either they are wayyyyy funny, great at listening, make lots of money or have great condos.

What ever their secret is I want to know it :D
 

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If you ever get to New York and walk along Lexington Avenue / Midtown on a Saturday evening there are wayyyyyyyyy to many hott women with less hott men. I have seen : Short, bald, over weight, aesthetically challenged and bad dressers, yet they have are in the company of women out of their league. Either they are wayyyyy funny, great at listening, make lots of money or have great condos.

What ever their secret is I want to know it :D
Um, you aren't ugly, You also are kinda smart and funny. You also have excellent taste in women. So....o_O