My bf and I are Chinese American - he is loosely cut with some skin folds around his frenulum, while I'm uncut with a long "sheath" with overhang. Tbh, I like both. I love to stroke/kiss his cut line and he loves sheathing and unsheathing me! Due to his circumcision, I'm quite interested in this subject now!
However, here's the problem: I just don't understand British culture well enough! OK, I live thousands of miles from the UK, but I want to learn so much more! On this subject, I have heard totally different views from two English friends, so not surprisingly, I'm totally confused!! :
1. The first English friend tells me that he personally is uncut and he thinks that probably more guys in England/UK are uncut than cut overall but doesn't know for sure and has "no idea" if his friends are cut or not, because he says English boys/guys think it's very rude to ask/look at each other's dicks/check each other out. He says that Americans are "obsessed on the subject" while English boys/guys have either no views one way or the other and/or don't notice. In your opinion, is that true for nearly all English guys, or just most?
2. The second English friend disagrees and tells me that tho he's uncut, several of his friends (in London) are cut - and he thinks English/British guys *are* interested in the subject and also that English/British ppl do support it when it's explained clearly to them. He says at his high school (Tottenham, London), a black boy about 14 - 15 y.o. took off his swim shorts (UK: swim trunks?) in front of several other white boys of the same age in the locker room without using a modesty towel, so obviously they saw everything, and he says they took a "long look" - contradicting my first English friend who says English guys simply don't do that! - and they commented he was "Very long and big!" and someone asked if he always pulled the skin back, and he said "No, I was circumcised", and then told them that his parents decided to do it (in England) for hygiene and that nearly all black guys in England/UK with African parents are also cut. His parents were from Ghana. They asked him about some other black boys at the school, such as a popular boy with a white mother and Nigerian father, and he told them that he is also circumcised, and some others guys with parents from Cameroon/another Nigeria/another Sierra Leone, plus several others, were too. They asked how he knew and he said he either asked them directly (he said some guys just told him they were, a few were embarrassed to answer) or at a summer camp or he checked them out at the urinal! That guy says the boys were all gawping at the black boy's dick for a long time - he even lifted it up to show them and pulled the head away a bit so they could see his (hidden) scar line!! The other boys hadn't heard of being cut before, but they said it looked cool and that they didn't usually see another guy's head at urinal or shower, but that his was bigger than theirs! One said the head looked "very dry" but he liked the cut look. The others agreed and the black guy told them that girls prefer it. So it seems that even tho many English guys don't get cut/don't know much about it, they are just curious and/or support the idea if it's explained clearly.
So, based on a mix of what those English guys told me, and also that English guys generally are extremely polite and considerate - I personally have experienced a lot of both from a lot of English guys - if anyone looked at your dick, would they:
a) not notice any difference? ;
b) politely pretend not to notice? ;
c) notice but have no opinion? ;
d) notice and ask you if it's better? ;
e) compliment you and say they wish they were cut too? ;
f) think you just pulled back the skin?
Sorry for so many questions, and thanks in advance if you can answer any of them for me! I can also tell my bf (who's cut) about your views, too. Hope you don't think they're too rude or personally intrusive
Best regards,
Wei