uk white girls, and pakistani guys

[SpiceFromIndia]

The gal i am with wants to be with me forever and if she understands that an indian guy is a whole package i will keep her otherwise she will have to go. And i think we are getting there. I would like to be with a person i can not live without not i can live with. It the gal makes it there obviously who can leave her.
For girl/guy who wants to date an indian guy from india. I find this answer very perfect for them.
Please see this

Please read the question and best answer. I was so impressed with her answer i myself could not have put these words any better. Honestly, i fell in love with this gal. She is actually very intelligent and smart gal. Alas!! she already has her indian guy

 

[SilverTrain]

This is my favorite thread title on lpsg

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

I met a girl last week who is getting married to an indian guy and for last 6 years she only dated indian guys and she was with for 6 years and never been single. She is going to visit india and i was telling her dos and donts in india and about indian parents. After all whites are alien in my country just like i was here. What does that tell you about the world?

 

[Drifterwood]

Is that a stick of dynamite in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?

 

[CurvyAsh]

Furthermore, generally, people tend to stick to people of their own, and skin color is one of the first things you identify a person consciously and unconsicously.

This made me laugh cos it is so very true, and in my experience its the minorities excluding themselves. When I was at school the all chinese (bar the english ones) and the russians only really hung around with themselves. At uni the chinese, the cypriots and the people of indian/pakistani decent do. I like to think I have a diverse group of friends including koreans, iranians, zimbabweans but I find most people from an ethnic minority dont give white people much time if there are people from the same background as them around.

I've never dated a pakistani guy but if I was single and liked someone who was I wouldnt think twice about it. You probably just aren't meeting the right sort of girls who are up one night stands.

 

[korinaus]

The gal i am with wants to be with me forever and if she understands that an indian guy is a whole package i will keep her otherwise she will have to go. And i think we are getting there. I would like to be with a person i can not live without not i can live with. It the gal makes it there obviously who can leave her.
For girl/guy who wants to date an indian guy from india. I find this answer very perfect for them.
Please see this

Please read the question and best answer. I was so impressed with her answer i myself could not have put these words any better. Honestly, i fell in love with this gal. She is actually very intelligent and smart gal. Alas!! she already has her indian guy

Hey, I think now we all know that Indian guys can be attractive to white girls and it seems you are one of them. No need to prove it too much further. Good on you, mate!

 

[korinaus]

This made me laugh cos it is so very true, and in my experience its the minorities excluding themselves. When I was at school the all chinese (bar the english ones) and the russians only really hung around with themselves. At uni the chinese, the cypriots and the people of indian/pakistani decent do. I like to think I have a diverse group of friends including koreans, iranians, zimbabweans but I find most people from an ethnic minority dont give white people much time if there are people from the same background as them around.

I've never dated a pakistani guy but if I was single and liked someone who was I wouldnt think twice about it. You probably just aren't meeting the right sort of girls who are up one night stands.

Thank you for laughing with my words. If I add another anecdote to this observation, I used to live in kind of international dormitory. And I shared the room with 5 guys from France, Spain, Germany, India and Australia. We really got along well in the room. Nobody was a racist. But, when we got ouf of the room to the dinning room for dinner or whatever, then we just seperated in ethic groups we originally belonged to. I don't know. It was just the way it was. I lived that place like 6 months, and no western girl but only one German girl ever came to the Asian group first. I never forget that moment. Haha, she was like a hero!

If you really want to have more good friends especially from Asia, I think you'd better approach first or let the person know you are interested in. Even in this 21th century, there is some mentality among Asia that white people are higher than them, and most Asian societies are hierachical rather than egalitarian if I have to choose, so it is unlikely than likely that they dare to approach first. I know it is all about stupid generalization, but sometimes this things have some truth. Hope you have a super-diversity friend group sooner or later!

 

[voidout]

altho, im nto after a relationship. im after sex, so how does teh desire for cultural coefficcy fit with that?

maybe THAT'S why. haha.
if you're looking for a hole, you're going to find just that...
a big empty hole around your penis.

also...you said that maybe if women saw your penis they'd be interested. as if they'd suddenly feel the need to drop to their knees and worship you.

well gee, i didn't know your penis had magical powers!

believe it or not...NOT ALL WOMEN CARE. in fact, most of us don't.
if the size is there, that's a plus, but it's not something i, and most of the women i know, seek after like a fucking nobel prize award. there are certainly much more important things in a relationship, and even just for sex.

have you ever thought that maybe the women you've sought after just don't find you attractive? i know that's not very nice to say, but it's probably the most accurate answer. whether it's the way you approach them, your physical looks, or something else...

 

[dolfette]

very true.

a nice cock is a bonus.
it's good to find one on a man we like and want to sleep with.

but we are NOT going to shag any man who wants to,
just because he has one.

it's hardly surprising that someone with such a low and misinformed opinio of women isn't getting any sex.

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

Even in this 21th century, there is some mentality among Asia that white people are higher than them

I dont think they are higher than them if you ask me i respect desis/asians more than any other in general for the reliablity and help they offer. Although there are good people that you can find in other races but not so much. Just my experiance. Regarding the mentality that many asians think whites are higher or above of them i would say brits were very good in manipulation. Read this and you will find the answer why that mentality still exists some.


The great mccaley himself saying about indian culture and proposing a great strategy.
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Lord McCauley in his speech of Feb 2, 1835, British Parliament
"I have travelled across the length and breadth of India and I have not seen one person who is
a beggar, who is a thief. Such wealth I have seen in this country, such high moral values,
people of such calibre, that I do not think we would ever conquer this country, unless we break
the very backbone of this nation, which is her spiritual and cultural heritage, and, therefore, I
propose that we replace her old and ancient education system, her culture, for if the Indians
think that all that is foreign and English is good and greater than their own, they will lose their
self-esteem, their native self-culture and they will become what we want them, a truly dominated
nation".


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I hope that brits and american respect the words of Mr. Mccauley the great, the keeper of british empire and would not doubt the greatness of indian culture. And as per you, you find the answer why that mentality still exists in some people. I wonder brits and uoropians looted asia so much. Where the fuck all that money went to ?

Now above proves that whites are betrayers, manipulators, cowards and many other things that i can not think of. But well oh well we are in 21st century and i dont think the same for every other whites.

 

[Section8]

I disagree and proof is my success thats too in the most conservative and racist part of america that is south. I think women are women no matter where and while world is being globalised, these barriers are no excuse any longer. And trust me, lots of white gals want to be with an indian guy but really many times guy leaves her and many times she dont find the indian guy she likes.

So a person's personal preference is now an "excuse". Whats next? Do all the white women at a party you attend have to blow you before they reject you just so you to prove they aren't "racist" and just don't like YOU? Anyone who believes that a given group's first preference for their own group is a "social construct" and not a primal directive(generally speaking, there are always exceptions) needs to get their head out of the "we are one, lets all join hands" naive ideology and their nose into some research papers on mammal behavioral science.

Even 3 month old babies exhibit this kind of bias when shown photographs of different types of faces. Your statements in the post above this show you obviously hate white people but are some how offended when our women don't want you. Here's some things you might want to change to improve your odds.

1: Wear some deodorant. No white girl likes the strong, perpetual smell of curry on a man.

2: Change your attitude. Your culture places women just above cattle at best. First world white women aren't going to wear your pigish attitudes, and attempts to treat them like sex toys and serving wenches.

3: Your accent. Its not cool, (like Colin Farrel) or tough (Arnold Schwarzenegger) its just comical. Get some speech therapy. Learn to talk more like preacher Benny Hin than a Calcutta fishmonger.

4: Diet. Don't make every meal with curry. Mix it up a bit and cook some of the western meals that she would know and like. Actually don't worry about it. The only white girls that would have sex with you considering your obvious hatred of whites would be trailor park sluts with no cultural or ethnic identity.

But then again, that would be okay considering you're only wanting to have sex with them so you can "show the white man" that you're banging his women and striking back right? Don't even try to pretend you're interested in marriage. Puppa Gupta back home would be most displeased if you did that.

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

So a person's personal preference is now an "excuse". Whats next? Do all the white women at a party you attend have to blow you before they reject you just so you to prove they aren't "racist" and just don't like YOU? Anyone who believes that a given group's first preference for their own group is a "social construct" and not a primal directive(generally speaking, there are always exceptions) needs to get their head out of the "we are one, lets all join hands" naive ideology and their nose into some research papers on mammal behavioral science. Even 3 month old babies exhibit this kind of bias when shown photographs of different types of faces.

What the hell are you talking about? I did not say anything about them being racist but now i would. Yes lots of white women i met are racist. And no i dont have any problems with them because i dont care. No matter what my share is always there as far as white women are concerned. I would advise you use small sentences because i dont have big brains like you and then i can understand what are you talking about. And also before commenting on me you should read the whole thing that i wrote. Follow the thread because there were some people from here who did not before and i owned them.

another thing you should know why i said they were racist. Because they were making faces on me when i did not even introduce myself or not even made an eye contact. In some of the parties i went, all the people were white except me and sometimes some of my friends. They talked ugly about me for no reasons and demanded that i should not be called for the next party or something which my white friend did not agree to but he did tell me the whole story.

 

[voidout]

What the hell are you talking about? I did not say anything about them being racist but now i would. Yes lots of white women i met are racist. And no i dont have any problems with them because i dont care. No matter what my share is always there as far as white women are concerned. I would advise you use small sentences because i dont have big brains like you and then i can understand what are you talking about. And also before commenting on me you should read the whole thing that i wrote. Follow the thread because there were some people from here who did not before and i owned them.

you pretty much did, though. i don't think you realize it.

instead of allowing women the choice of having a preference...something that men easily are allowed to have without being called a bitch or a racist or a whore...you're now saying it's an excuse. an excuse for what? for racism, is obviously what you're referring to.

so we aren't allowed to have personal preference otherwise we're racist bitches because of YOUR insecurities about not being able to be with a white woman.

maybe it's those very insecurities that are such a turn off for not just white women, but women in general. NEWS FLASH: right now...the only one drawing attention to the color of your skin is you.

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and now dirty looks qualify us white women as KKK members? what the fuck. maybe you smelt bad, or they smelt something bad, or they thought you were ugly. HELLO. girls do that shit all the time. i'm not saying it's right, but the fact that you automatically think "dirty look = racism" is just as arrogant.

MAYBE they didn't want you at the party because you offended them somehow. you have no idea what was going through those peoples head. they could have overheard you say something or thought they heard something they didn't like. it's human nature, dude, get over it.

 

[Section8]

What the hell are you talking about? I did not say anything about them being racist but now i would. Yes lots of white women i met are racist. And no i dont have any problems with them because i dont care. No matter what my share is always there as far as white women are concerned. I would advise you use small sentences because i dont have big brains like you and then i can understand what are you talking about. And also before commenting on me you should read the whole thing that i wrote. Follow the thread because there were some people from here who did not before and i owned them.

another thing you should know why i said they were racist. Because they were making faces on me when i did not even introduce myself or not even made an eye contact. In some of the parties i went, all the people were white except me and sometimes some of my friends. They talked ugly about me for no reasons and demanded that i should not be called for the next party or something which my white friend did not agree to but he did tell me the whole story.

Now above proves that whites are betrayers, manipulators, cowards and many other things that i can not think of

Ring a bell champ?

 

[voidout]

looks to me like the only one paying attention to anyone's skin color is spice. way to go. you just lost any credibility in this discussion. congrats!

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

you pretty much did, though. i don't think you realize it.

instead of allowing women the choice of having a preference...something that men easily are allowed to have without being called a bitch or a racist or a whore...you're now saying it's an excuse. an excuse for what? for racism, is obviously what you're referring to.
What execuse ? Somebody said they want to be in their own social circle and may be because of that its not possible. And i said its not true because things change with time if somebody is friendly with you atleast
so we aren't allowed to have personal preference otherwise we're racist bitches because of YOUR insecurities about not being able to be with a white woman.
I am already with a white women and have been with plenty so no insecurities here and yes i respect personnal preference

maybe it's those very insecurities that are such a turn off for not just white women, but women in general. NEWS FLASH: right now...the only one drawing attention to the color of your skin is you.

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and now dirty looks qualify us white women as KKK members? what the fuck. maybe you smelt bad, or they smelt something bad, or they thought you were ugly. HELLO. girls do that shit all the time. i'm not saying it's right, but the fact that you automatically think "dirty look = racism" is just as arrogant.

Ok so here is the more detail about the story. They said they dont like dark skin people and they referred me as black now no blacks were in that party except me and i aint black i am east indian. Now is that racist or not ?

MAYBE they didn't want you at the party because you offended them somehow. you have no idea what was going through those peoples head. they could have overheard you say something or thought they heard something they didn't like. it's human nature, dude, get over it.

Hahaha get over what ? I dont care so there is no getting over. I was invited by the host and none of them live there. Isnt it wrong telling the host who to invite who not to invite ?

i hope that clears my stand on it.

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

looks to me like the only one paying attention to anyone's skin color is spice. way to go. you just lost any credibility in this discussion. congrats!

Thank you. YOu dont have to tell me about the skin colour because its not us who sees it its them. And when i said its them does not mean all of them or not even a majority that i know for sure. But some of them are. Karma is a bitch the shit you throw it always come back. Skin color concept given by whites not us. read the history of india. On the train they wrote dogs and indians are not allowed. Read gandhi jee's work in south africa. Who came up with skin color ... helloooooooooo not me. You should visit southern part of america and then you would not question me. I know northerners are good.

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

Ring a bell champ?

Ring a bell on what ? That remark a sarcasm about the history. If you read the next sentence i said i dont think so because world has changed. I hope you got it.

 

[SpiceFromIndia]

Another thing about skin color. India is a vast country if you go to extreme south we have ppl like black people and if you go to kasmir and jammu we have people like whites. And i dont have any preference. I have been with black hispanic brazillian middle eastern ofcourse indian and some others mixed one. I am color blind. My philosophy is no matter who are you, if you love me i am yours.

 

[voidout]

Another thing about skin color. India is a vast country if you go to extreme south we have blacker than black people and if you go to kasmir and jammu we have people whiter than whites.

my point wasn't the specific color of your skin, my point is you're the only one paying attention to who's white/black/brown/red/blue/purple. YOU'RE the one saying that white people made you this way, with all your complexes and insecurities. if you're with a white woman then why do you constantly blame white people for making you care about the color of your skin?

also, the point of history is to teach us, to give us understanding, and for us to learn. it's supposed to be a part of us, but not define us, and for you to take a time period that you did not even live in or experience any of it's hardships then you're a fool for letting that victimize you.

i've been the prey of countless racist men, specifically, and some women because i'm white. you don't see me crying about how i now blame all other races for the reason i see color. i understand that caucasions have impacted your culture in a negative way, but you're doing the same exact thing by blaming an entire race for the way you think.

i'm just trying to show you that you need to watch what you say, or at least be more clear on the points you're trying to prove, because a lot of what you're saying sounds incredibly bigoted and prejudice.