Ultimate Humiliation: GAY with a SMALL DICK

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There is really NOTHING worse for a gay man than having a tiny dick. I cannot tell you how many times I've had promising relationships until they get my pants off and then they get soft or can't cum. It honestly is better to be ugly or fat than have a small penis. It's like the ultimate deal breaker for gay men. TBH even though I have a tiny dick I'd still never date a guy with one. I also like big cocks so it isn't like I don't play into this, but let's just be honenst. Gay men like big dicks and a tiny dick bascially means you're doomed to be single forever.
 

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There is really NOTHING worse for a gay man than having a tiny dick. I cannot tell you how many times I've had promising relationships until they get my pants off and then they get soft or can't cum. It honestly is better to be ugly or fat than have a small penis. It's like the ultimate deal breaker for gay men. TBH even though I have a tiny dick I'd still never date a guy with one. I also like big cocks so it isn't like I don't play into this, but let's just be honenst. Gay men like big dicks and a tiny dick bascially means you're doomed to be single forever.
Nah. There is one factor and one factor only in sexual attractiveness: confidence. People who love themselves attract sexual partners regardless of other factors. There are many ugly fat small dick guys who consistently get laid simply because they believe they can. More advice:

(1) Try this exercise: make up a lot of reasons why you can get the dick you want (rather than making up a lot of reasons why you can't). Strap on the Law of Attraction, because it is a sexual big tool.
(2) Don't get down on yourself for preferring guys with big dicks even though you yourself have a tiny dick: instead, accept that you love big dicks, accept that you yourself are under-endowed, and accept that you are incredibly sexual attractive. Notice the emphasis on "acceptance:" once you embrace acceptance on the mental plane, your mouth and anus will accept big dicks in the physical. (But if you continue to reject yourself, others will continue to reject you.)
(3) As for real world tactics: Have you ever tried letting your prospective lovers know upfront that you have a small dick? That gets rid of the guys for whom thats a deal-breaker, and attracts the guys who don't mind or who prefer them.
(4) You will likely have to deal with your share of tiny dick fetishists, guys into SPH, and kinky people who associate dick size with sexual hierarchy and sexual roles -- make a decision as to whether you can tolerate/enjoy that or not; there's no shame either way. Fetishism, SPH and roleplay can actually be turned into an erotic platform for attention-getting and self-love (ie, "embrace the stigma" as a tactic for getting what you want). All kinds of personal qualities can be sexualized or demonized by the erotic marketplace: but it's your choice whether to go with the flow or head in another direction; make the choice that makes you happy.
(5) Given that your dick is small, you probably won't be a top. You may need to accept being a bottom, and you may need to focus your desire on total tops if you prefer monogamous LTRs.(But who knows? Some bottoms may want to collect cum deposits without the hassle and pain of getting their manpussies stretched. Just as a lot of people don't like small dicks, a lot of people don't like big dicks, but the porn industry will never tell you that.)
(6) There needs to be a "small dick pride" movement. Maybe you should start it. Ask porn producers to explicitly sexualize small dick men. Dick comparisons get me off, so I love watching big dick tops destroy tiny dick bottoms; I hate it when the bottom wears a jock to cover up the fact he's got a teeny pecker. Long live micro-penises! I once had a longterm fuck buddy with a 2-incher -- he was a big hunky jock otherwise, and I totally got off on making him suck my cock and lick my balls. I think millions of other guys would find that scenario really hot.

Hope this advice helps you get more bang from the buck for your teeny weenie! :)
 

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To @cockboiii

You are not well endowed, but you're not that small either. Length of your cock looks a little shorter than average, girth looks at least average. If you want to fuck guys, you have more than enough meat to make it work. As @ShivaLingam wrote, just be honest about your size, and develop confidence and skills (and figure out which positions work best). Furthermore, some cocksuckers love more modestly endowed men. That is to say, yes, you're not going to satisfy the most demanding size queens, but there are a lot of guys out there who would love to have sex with a confident, fit man whose cock size may be a bit below average.
 

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There is really NOTHING worse for a gay man than having a tiny dick. I cannot tell you how many times I've had promising relationships until they get my pants off and then they get soft or can't cum. It honestly is better to be ugly or fat than have a small penis. It's like the ultimate deal breaker for gay men. TBH even though I have a tiny dick I'd still never date a guy with one. I also like big cocks so it isn't like I don't play into this, but let's just be honenst. Gay men like big dicks and a tiny dick bascially means you're doomed to be single forever.
tbh, if people reject you for your small dick, then they did you a favour. You'd wanna be with someone who accepts all of you, mine ain't much, 4.5 inches hard, yet I was still able to get guys bigger than me to get on their knees and suck me off, also "doomed to be single forever" is just funny when I've been in relationships with girls and men (currently exclusively dating my boyfriend rn) despite my size. It's not the size of the tool it's how you use it and you can compliment yourself by not having a shitty personality either (not projecting, I'm just saying in general, being attractive is more than just physical looks if freaking Pete Davidson is any indication)
 

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Appreciate the posts guys! But I think from looking at almost any post here that almost no gay guys like small dicks. Just look at the ugly and hung thread. Almost 100% of the respondents would take an ugly dude with big dick over a cute guy with a tiny dick…
honey, you're on a website titled "Large Penis Support Group", this is NOT a good sample size for a consensus that EVERYONE wants someone with a big wiener.
 

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I love guys with small dicks. I'd much rather be with a guy I find hot who has a lil shrimp, rather than a horse hung guy that I'm not attracted to. I'm vers, I would happily be topped by a guy with a little one. If they're literally so small that they can't top me then we can just do other things, or I can top them. Small dicks are great. I love seeing them.
 

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I always have a bit of a hard time with the SPH (small penis humiliation) crowd.
They want to be belittled (no pun intended!) for their small dick, be ridiculed and embarrassed for it. They want their dick to be at the centre of attention.
I, on the other hand, don't really care much for dick in general. So SPH guys are typically not that happy to be told "I don't care if you have a small one, let's focus on your ass" :D
 

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Nah. There is one factor and one factor only in sexual attractiveness: confidence. People who love themselves attract sexual partners regardless of other factors. There are many ugly fat small dick guys who consistently get laid simply because they believe they can. More advice:

(1) Try this exercise: make up a lot of reasons why you can get the dick you want (rather than making up a lot of reasons why you can't). Strap on the Law of Attraction, because it is a sexual big tool.
(2) Don't get down on yourself for preferring guys with big dicks even though you yourself have a tiny dick: instead, accept that you love big dicks, accept that you yourself are under-endowed, and accept that you are incredibly sexual attractive. Notice the emphasis on "acceptance:" once you embrace acceptance on the mental plane, your mouth and anus will accept big dicks in the physical. (But if you continue to reject yourself, others will continue to reject you.)
(3) As for real world tactics: Have you ever tried letting your prospective lovers know upfront that you have a small dick? That gets rid of the guys for whom thats a deal-breaker, and attracts the guys who don't mind or who prefer them.
(4) You will likely have to deal with your share of tiny dick fetishists, guys into SPH, and kinky people who associate dick size with sexual hierarchy and sexual roles -- make a decision as to whether you can tolerate/enjoy that or not; there's no shame either way. Fetishism, SPH and roleplay can actually be turned into an erotic platform for attention-getting and self-love (ie, "embrace the stigma" as a tactic for getting what you want). All kinds of personal qualities can be sexualized or demonized by the erotic marketplace: but it's your choice whether to go with the flow or head in another direction; make the choice that makes you happy.
(5) Given that your dick is small, you probably won't be a top. You may need to accept being a bottom, and you may need to focus your desire on total tops if you prefer monogamous LTRs.(But who knows? Some bottoms may want to collect cum deposits without the hassle and pain of getting their manpussies stretched. Just as a lot of people don't like small dicks, a lot of people don't like big dicks, but the porn industry will never tell you that.)
(6) There needs to be a "small dick pride" movement. Maybe you should start it. Ask porn producers to explicitly sexualize small dick men. Dick comparisons get me off, so I love watching big dick tops destroy tiny dick bottoms; I hate it when the bottom wears a jock to cover up the fact he's got a teeny pecker. Long live micro-penises! I once had a longterm fuck buddy with a 2-incher -- he was a big hunky jock otherwise, and I totally got off on making him suck my cock and lick my balls. I think millions of other guys would find that scenario really hot.

Hope this advice helps you get more bang from the buck for your teeny weenie! :)
Awesome Post - thanks!
 
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There is really NOTHING worse for a gay man than having a tiny dick. I cannot tell you how many times I've had promising relationships until they get my pants off and then they get soft or can't cum. It honestly is better to be ugly or fat than have a small penis. It's like the ultimate deal breaker for gay men. TBH even though I have a tiny dick I'd still never date a guy with one. I also like big cocks so it isn't like I don't play into this, but let's just be honenst. Gay men like big dicks and a tiny dick bascially means you're doomed to be single forever.
Sorry you feel this way, the harsh reality is that there's little or nothing you can do to change dick size. Yes the gay Community is truly obsessed with big dicks, but shouldn't be much a problem if you like bottoming. Its when you're a top thats when it will be truly frustrating. But don't give up there are guys that can overlook your size and still accept you. Like someone pointed out yes there guys not into big dicks tho might be the minority. I'm a black bi top with about 6.8inches, I consider myself average. I've been with a few btms who expressed disappointment at my size, used to get to me but not anymore lol. Most of the guys I've been with enjoyed it and some even considered big lol. Its easier for straight guys with same small dick issue as women as not as crazy of big dicks like gays are. Just be yourself and try to be confident.
 

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Dick size is not that important if you are a bottom.
A top with a small cock on the other hand may be a problem.
For the most part, wrong. Most guys, large and small have enough imagination to make whatever they have work. There are exceptions of course, but being small does NOT doom someone (unless you want to be the bottom) to bottoming only.
 
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I hate to say it but honestly even most tops I’ve met want a bigger dick than I’ve got. Being a top does not mean one isn’t also a size queen
Lol those are the kind of tops that will flip once they find out their hookup is hung, they're not real tops. I understand some tops like sucking and all but why should a bttms dick concern a top that much lol