Um...heres a question about ejaculation...

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  1. Pappy

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    There is a world of variables that affect ejaculate volume and the force with which it is expelled. How long it's been since your last session, are you well hydrated, are you eating properly and the list goes on and on. If it's something that really is bothering you, talk to your family doctor about it.
     
  2. Altairion

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    Pappy listed some good factors. I'm sure hydration has something to do with it along with how long its been since your last release, but I think the key for you is ejaculation force. I've noticed that if I have a longer session before I cum, then I have significantly more force behind it. I've always been a bit of a shooter and never really had it just drip out, but next time you jerk off focus on your contractions when you ejaculate. Learn how your system works and eventually you'll have a better chance of influencing your own mechanics.

    I'm not saying this is a proven method or anything, but I think I push things along almost automatically now, so I just end up with a better product.
     
  3. fredski49

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    Maybe you should do a little research into PC muscle exercises (the muscle you squeeze to stop the flow of piss). This partly controls the ejaculation force. Try doing 100-200 short PC squeezes per day and one 30 second one and soon you'll notice a difference. This also helps guard against incontinence in later life and even prostate cancer, so well worth doing. Obviously just doing this wont make you able to shoot like a porn star, but if you're well hydrated, have a good long session after a long time without one, i guarantee you you will notice a difference.

    By the way, you may want to look up PC exercises somewhere else cos I wouldn't call myself the authority!
     
  4. Alley Blue

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    Some guys just are not shooters. That pretty much the simple truth of it all. Nothing is wrong with you and I certainly would'nt call it a serious malfunction, if a malfunction at all.

    I most definatly would'nt loose any sleep over this.
     
  5. Pecker

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    IMHO dribblers outnumber shooters by a long shot.
     
  6. jonb

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    Well, first off, porn isn't the majority of the population. But here are some factors.

    1. Hydration. This is the big one.
    2. Medication. Certain medications make you ejaculate less, or none at all. At the opposite extreme, certain ones help your sex drive.
    3. Time since your last ejaculation. The longer, the more you ejaculate. Within reason; it doesn't seem to affect it.
    4. Time spent aroused. The more aroused you are, the more you ejaculate.
    5. Age. Your first ejaculations won't be so much, but later ejaculations will be. You're probably past that point now. Also in middle age, you don't ejaculate as much.
     
  7. dfox7.3x5

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    Alleyblu is right. Don't worry about it! I've never been much of a long-shooter, but I still produce a lot of cum, even though I'm older. I have sex with guys younger than me who don't cream nearly as much. So don't obsess about it, OK? There are millions of men out there whose penises don't perform. Be glad yours does, and concentrate that.
     
  8. aqua-illusion

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    They are called Kegel exercises'...

    The muscle you use to stop peeing mid-stream is what you are supposed to work out....it can be anywhere, just tighten it for a 5 second rep. and release...do it 20 times....and then increase the amount as you feel comfortable/progress and in no time, the cum will FLY!!!!! :woohoo:
     
  9. nark29

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    I find it also has to do with how fast your moving your hand, like if you're going insanely fast and don't stop i find i shoot like no other. As compared to going slowly and perhaps not going as fast at the end, then i don't shoot so much. But everything everybody else said also plays a factor. It's no special talent. :p Unless you plan on becoming a porn star and they need you to shoot all over girls that are 5feet away. :p
     
  10. Franky

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    If you watch much porn you will see some guys shoot a distance and some only dribble. I find it fascinating when a guy with 10" just lets out a little dollop of spunk!
    It can be due to the volume of your cum or its viscosity or the size of your pee hole or the power of your spunking muscles or just how you hit the last stroke in time with your actual ejaculation.
    When I was young I could shoot 7 feet but now at 65 I only shoot out a few inches but I don't mind.

    Franky
     
  11. D_Humper E Bogart

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    You still outdo me. I feel embarrased. "Damn, beaten by the oldie!" :p
     
  12. 7x5.5

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    Drink a lot of water, then when you've got the house to yourself have a long session (1 hour +). I think you'll be surprised. I know when I'm by myself and I just wanna blow real quick it just dribbles out, but if I go for a while it sprays like a hose up to 2 metres or so. Whether you're with a woman or not makes a difference too I think - you'll be more excited with a girl and shoot further.
     
  13. zaphod

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    Porn is not a good indicator of reality. they pick guys for porn for these reasons:
    Size of penis
    Stamina
    Amount of cum
    looks
    Probably in that order.
    I thaught that my 7 by 6 inch penis was average from watching porn, because that was the only erect penises I saw other than my own. When I did see other "normal" erect penises, I thaought that those guys were exceptionally small.
     
  14. Rikter8

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    I agree with the comments already listed by the very wise and noble folks that posted.

    Dude... your 16. Your body is still growing, Changing.

    What you shoot now, may not even reflect what you'll do when your 20 or 25.

    Don't go by what Porn Stars do. Alot of it is Fake CHEESE, and some of it is camera work. (Sometimes the facial cum looks just like jergens lotion)

    A big load is always fun, but doesn't reflect any lack of masculinity or Fertility.

    Shooters are generally people like me, that have a very narrow or small piss slit.

    I did a poll on the old board on how big piss slit size was, and it correlated somewhat with ejaculate distance.
    BUT - some guys with small holes also were dribblers.

    Hydration and lots of foreplay always builds me up for a good load.
    More stimulation over time, and bringing yourself to the Edge of orgasm, builds up a nice load.

    Drink lots of water for like a couple of days, then jack off for a while. Stimulate your dick until your at the point of shooting - but stop short of that.
    Repeat at least 3 times (Over an hour or so).
    Then, let er Rip!
    You Want replies to your original topic...

    Well We want a Reply on your progress.
    C
     
  15. D_Humper E Bogart

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    7.5X5, thanks. Well, encourages me to drink more. The only time I've shot far was when I abstained for a week!
     
  16. bigsam

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    I'm not much of a shooter at all...but in very random occasions (usually when a girl was giving me a handjob which took forever) I've like exploded all over the place. My volume isn't usually that much, but for some reason in random situations its just tonns and tonns and really far. It is kind of random in some sense. It has to do with exactly how your body responds at that exact second.

    I think my ejaculations may actually have been affected because I think I have traumatic masturbation syndrome (from masturbating prone), as my ejaculations become more forceful if I abstain from masturbating in this fashion for a long time.
     
  17. txquis

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    the majority of my partners are dribblers or oozers, not shooters.
    i finally have been convinced by them that shooting is more rare.
     
  18. Alley Blue

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    I tend to agree with this. The only time i've seen Peter North type cum shots is in porn.
     
  19. B_Hung Muscle

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    Agree with blu and Jeff.

    I played with a guy one time, though, who absolutely drenched me. He was the only guys in hundreds of encounters who ever came close to Peter North! I was a happy cummy puppy.
     
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    i use to not be able to shoot very much at all either but i did research and started doing the PC exercise i would do a set of like 700 throughout the day each day and about a week later i could shoot alittle under 4 feet so trust from experience th pc exercise works,, and if your wondering what the hell is a pc its the musle you use to cut off the flow of urine which is also the same musle the contracts when you climax.
     
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