"Um..no thank you?"

[MrHappy]

I've been poking about online dating sites lately and I keep getting messages only saying,

"LETS FUCK!"

Is this a total turnoff for anyone else, or am I just being prude?

 

[Starbug]

No, I feel the same way. I get it on Grindr a lot.

 

[distance]

LOL....considering that's the PURPOSE of grindr...

 

[Starbug]

LOL....considering that's the PURPOSE of grindr...

Speak for yourself. I've had plenty of good conversations and made a few friends on Grindr - none of whom have seen my dick.

 

[umami_tsunami]

Poor grammar can put me off too.

 

[socalfreak]

I guess it depends on what your goal is.... getting laid or having a meaningful relationship..

 

[houtx48]

Speak for yourself. I've had plenty of good conversations and made a few friends on Grindr - none of whom have seen my dick.

ROFLMAO............This is your story.

 

[need2bsexy2]

I think the OP has it right. Who would you like to talk to that gave you that first message, straight or gay?

Sex IS personal and about you and them together. If they can't express themselves adequately in their first approach, what is there to find?

 

[martin60018]

websites and phone lines are for sex right?
does anyone really think they will find marriage online?
isnt that like reading about a sports car then going to out to buy it without a real test drive? seems like everyone is mostly about looks, not substance.
so why not get get out and see what you like, then see if you click?
dating online is like clicking 1st, then finding out of you like what you see?

 

[xmarksbreakdownx]

That would put me off on a dating site. In the same way guys on hook up sites are "Looking for more than a quick fuck." Please, take your ass to eHarmony.

 

[rayray]

I've been poking about online dating sites lately and I keep getting messages only saying,

"LETS FUCK!"

Is this a total turnoff for anyone else, or am I just being prude?

You get a wide variety of people on these sites..Just focus on the ones you like..I know it can be very annoying but at least on the upside , you are being viewed.

 

[manju]

Consider yourself lucky... you could be Asian and get absolutely NO offers to fuck at all...none.

 

[crescendo69]

Let's talk!

 

[Gecko4lif]

Let's talk!

I want you to ravage my earholes with your sweet velvety throat cock

 

[deleted3782]

I've been poking about online dating sites lately and I keep getting messages only saying,

"LETS FUCK!"

Is this a total turnoff for anyone else, or am I just being prude?

You are right, its so much nicer to actually know and like the person I have sex with.

 

[erratic]

"LETS FUCK!"

Let's unpack all the red flags in these two words for a moment:

1) Caps Lock? Probably shit in bed. In fact, it suggests that the cortical activity in his prefrontal lobes is so impaired that he may quite literally shit in bed.

2) Not knowing how to use an apostrophe? Probably not worth fucking. Sure, people screw this up all the time. That said, if I wanted to impress a guy and get him to blow me, I'd be using my best grammar. If I were suffering from crystal meth and Viagra induced priapism...not so likely to use appropriate grammar.

Crystal meth.

Not even once.

3) Two-word first communications like that = Not understanding how to communicate with human beings.

 

[SyddyKitty]

This is the reason I stopped visiting such sites. :s

 

[LargeSide]

This is the reason I stopped visiting such sites. :s

This! It is absolutely ridiculous, in my opinion, the lengths some people try to go to get a person in their bed.

 

[798686]

I've been poking about online dating sites lately and I keep getting messages only saying,

"LETS FUCK!"

Is this a total turnoff for anyone else, or am I just being prude?

'LET'S NOT' springs to mind.

 

[798686]

Consider yourself lucky... you could be Asian and get absolutely NO offers to fuck at all...none.

Let's Fuck.