Hi...I need advice!! My new boyfriend and I had sex for the 1st time this weekend...afterward I bled some (for two days) and had slight pain on my lower right side...it did not hurt much during. He is fairly large (8 in. length...don't know the girth) I did the same thing when I lost my virginity to a 10 incher (years ago). I recently divorced an average sized man who I always wished was a bit bigger. He NEVER hurt me, but was apparently hung like a minnow (lol). This was my first time since him...so I had not had sex since about December. I am a fairly small person..I am 5'1 and very tight...new boyfriend almost couldn't get it in... Some other details that you may need to know are that my vagina slants to my right side some...my uterus lays on top of my right ovary...this according to several dr.s....so I hope to get to where I can handle him, but I do not want to bleed everytime....he is very gentle and will be patient, but I just want to enjoy sex with him...everything else about our relationship is absolutely great...any suggestions for positions or anything else, or do we just have to keep trying? Please help!!!!