Doubtless_Mouse: Ok, hoping someone here can help me with a little problem. It seems that I have increased size over the past few years, but didn't do anything intentional. I understand that jelqing does increase size, but what exactly is it. It is fairly common for me to massage and stretch the big whatever, but never with the idea on increasing size. I often maintain a hardon and clench muscles to push more blood into the penis. is this jelqing? i am worried as my wife has been having difficulties lately, experiencing pain more than before...I have always been a fair size, but when i joined this site, measured and realized it was 8". never thought of myself as this large (used to measure 7 - 7 1/2"). Any insight would be appreciated.