as an "older guy", 70, I have a lot of sex, a lot of sucking and fucking, wife, gf, occasional guys. More and more I last A LONG TIME with my hard on (aided for special occasions by a jolt of Viagra), and often I don't ejaculate. I get very close, though. I try to thing of something very sexual but not with the person I'm with. E.g., when I'm fucking my wife or she's blowing me for cum, I think of my gf who deepthroats and swallows deep more than anyone. That usually does it. Or a guy who really knew how to do my dick. Or sometimes, nothing avails. I just thrust with my huge thick hardon and enjoy the sensations. My wife says, "So you didn't cum. Tough shit, I did, like 6 times." When it's tough is when you go soft, which I seldom do. When I do cum, sometimes twice within 15 mins or even more, the gusher cums in, in spades.
