First of all, I`m in love with myself without being affected by anything. I`m in love with my gf and some other human beings too. I just fall in love with someone the moment I see him/her for no visible reason, so my love is unconditional. I guess sex with person I share such mutual feelings is best thing you can get. I`m asking myself is the need for rationalization and searching for reasons and conditions, weakness in my capability to love, wich is higher truth beyond reasons and conditions.