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I’m sure this has been posted before. I tried searching but didn’t find anything specific. I’m uncut and find my dick can be pretty sensitive, meaning, if I’m jerking off, there’s not a chance I’m pulling the foreskin back to jerk off, because I will pass out it’s so sensitive. I’ve always been this way, even if it rubs the wrong way in my underwear it’s not pleasant. When I’ve gotten blowjobs in the past, they’ve been okay and haven’t really had issues, but for whatever reason when my current boyfriend sucks my dick, I have to tell him to stop after a few seconds because it’s so sensitive, and not in a good way. This ends up causing friction because then he feels he’s doing something wrong. When I’m being the top, it usually works out okay but I have to use a lot of lube. I sometimes watch videos of uncut guys jerking off and they are just going to town on their head with foreskin pulled back and have no issues and I’m just flabbergasted by this. Any other uncut guys have this issue? Any suggestions on how to reduce the sensitivity?
 

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My cock is uncut and sensitive, too. I'd never masturbate with the hood retracted...that's crazy talk. Porn is not real life. Explore with your boyfriend how you would like him to suck your cock...maybe he just needs to be more gentle and light...maybe slower.
 
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I’m fine with intense contact to my cockhead with my foreskin retracted. I guess it varies person to person.
 
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I think it does vary person to person, but i think it is possible to become a little less sensitive. It used to be that I couldn't jerk off using my hand because even that was too intense even with leaving the head covered so I was humping a lot of pillows lol. It was very, very gradual that I became less sensitive and now I can rub my bare head with just a little spit/precum and it feels amazing. But I very deliberately worked on it, jerking off my bare head with lots of lube even if it felt too intense. That's just me though. Most guys have different sensitivity levels, i think.
 
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It is a subject on which there is a lot to say about. I try to answer even if I'm not in the same situation as you. That is, I'm uncircumcised, but I don't have a hypersensitive glans (anymore). In fact, besides, for example, leaving it uncovered during a shower, soaping it entirely or drying it with a towel, I could wear underwear or a bathrobe with the foreskin still retracted.

Masturbation was also mentioned in the comment. Apart from the fact that I never understand exactly what is meant by the statement "masturbating with the glans uncovered" (since some intend to masturbate with the foreskin that fully exposes the glans or remains under it, while others refer to the stimulation or direct touch of the glans), as far as I'm concerned I usually masturbate by moving the skin that remains under the glans or stimulating it directly (but only in this case with a little lubricant to facilitate the sliding of the hand).

Does this mean that my glans is insensitive? Absolutely not. When I leave my penis in my underwear with the foreskin retracted, in the first few hours what I feel is little enjoyable. Then there are some parts that, if stimulated, quickly lead me to ejaculation (especially the inner foreskin or the frenulum). Not to mention the moment of ejaculation: in that instant, and for a few seconds later, I can't touch the glans with anything. This means that in principle I have a glans that is sensitive (I feel quite the rubbing of the glans on any surface: hand, underpants, towel, sheet, pillow, etc.), but without this sensitivity becoming discomfort or worse pain. I was in the same situation as you in adolescence and now I have a "normal sensitivity".

As many have written to you, it is still something subjective that varies, for many reasons (including anatomical ones), from person to person. However, you can certainly try to reduce your hypersensitivity. How? You have to use the glans and get used to external stimuli. These stimuli are multiple: hand, water, fabrics, objects, etc. By doing so, over time, you will be able to lessen the discomfort and convert those feelings into pleasure. Touching the glans with a finger, as I do, perhaps to masturbate or simply wash it, will seem normal to you. I tend to emphasize the time factor. A satisfactory result cannot be obtained immediately or in a few days, given your current hypersensitivity: it takes more time to help the glans become familiar with new or stronger types of stimulation. Everything must be gradual to avoid pain. All this can be beneficial especially sexually speaking.
 
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Growing up uncut in the Deep South I hated it as a kid because I thought I was different from everyone else but later only realized that a few of the boys were circumcised and most of us were uncut. As I matured into my 4skin, I realized I loved it, the way it feels, sliding up and down and now am nearly militant in advocating against being cut as an infant. My head is sensitive so when I slide the skin up and down it feels good but not so much fully retracted. I find when getting head, I prefer that the skin stay covering the glans rather than have them skin it back. That’s no so much an option during insertion as that forces the skin back and BTW Ive never really enjoyed topping so much - maybe its due to this. Foreskin is sexy and fun. Keep working it. Oh - lightening - how on earth do you keep it retracted 24/7? I cant imagine how you manage that.
 
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I'm uncut and used to be very sensitive. Just the way you describe it. But with use, wear and tear the sensitivity has decreased. I enjoy being able to really "go to town" on my cock, but also miss that super sensitivity that I used to have. I hope you find a way to enjoy it. And eventually it may decrease for you as well? :)
 

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I'm uncut and my wife says the gland is more sensative then any other guy she's known, many also uncut.

I usually let the skin roll back and forth when I use to masturbate and it wasn't overly sensative but felt good. When I was younger I was told to roll the skin back and leave it like that, let it roll forward on it's own to help not be oversensative and that did help.

My wife likes that she can suck an uncut dick with the skin rolled back and if it's getting to be too much she can roll it forward and continue with mostly pressure pulling it out to keep going.

When I use to wear condoms, I would always roll the skin forward before putting the condom on to make myself last a lot longer then if I had the skin rolled back.

To sum up, try having the skin rolled back a little while when your just sitting, then a little while when walking... ect, building up duration and amount of natural movement. The constant contact with fabric as well as the gland surface getting dry will slowly decrease the sensativity
 

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Growing up uncut in the Deep South I hated it as a kid because I thought I was different from everyone else but later only realized that a few of the boys were circumcised and most of us were uncut. As I matured into my 4skin, I realized I loved it, the way it feels, sliding up and down and now am nearly militant in advocating against being cut as an infant. My head is sensitive so when I slide the skin up and down it feels good but not so much fully retracted. I find when getting head, I prefer that the skin stay covering the glans rather than have them skin it back. That’s no so much an option during insertion as that forces the skin back and BTW Ive never really enjoyed topping so much - maybe its due to this. Foreskin is sexy and fun. Keep working it. Oh - lightening - how on earth do you keep it retracted 24/7? I cant imagine how you manage that.

I found out how to manipulate it so that the foreskin is rolled underneath an inside here's a picture Screenshot_20201203-160039_Samsung Internet.jpg
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I’m sure this has been posted before. I tried searching but didn’t find anything specific. I’m uncut and find my dick can be pretty sensitive, meaning, if I’m jerking off, there’s not a chance I’m pulling the foreskin back to jerk off, because I will pass out it’s so sensitive. I’ve always been this way, even if it rubs the wrong way in my underwear it’s not pleasant. When I’ve gotten blowjobs in the past, they’ve been okay and haven’t really had issues, but for whatever reason when my current boyfriend sucks my dick, I have to tell him to stop after a few seconds because it’s so sensitive, and not in a good way. This ends up causing friction because then he feels he’s doing something wrong. When I’m being the top, it usually works out okay but I have to use a lot of lube. I sometimes watch videos of uncut guys jerking off and they are just going to town on their head with foreskin pulled back and have no issues and I’m just flabbergasted by this. Any other uncut guys have this issue? Any suggestions on how to reduce the sensitivity?
Masturbate more, multiple times a day.
 
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Seems to me that since you have had pleasureable blowjobs in the past with others, the problem may lie with your boyfriend's technique. Is he producing enough saliva to lubricate his mouth? The more saliva the better your dick will move in his mouth. A wet mouth should feel great no matter how sensitive you are. I am very sensitive too, so I know. Is he letting your foreskin slide back and forth as it would naturally or is he holding it back and maybe pulling it too tight? I have found that this can be a problem for me. Try having him give you a no-hands blowjob and see if that helps. I prefer fucking their mouth over them giving me a blowjob as I am in control. For me teeth always get in the way as my dick is thick. I have been scraped by teeth way too many times. Maybe he is not opening his mouth far enough to accomodate your cock. You don't say how old you are. Your dick will get somewhat less sensitive as you use it more and as you age. Having a sensitive glans does not mean that you come any quicker as I can fuck for a very long time if things stay lubed up. Getting less sensitive has not meant that I take longer. It just means that I don't get hurt so easily. Teeth still hurt.
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