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Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by jmen8229, Apr 26, 2010.

  1. jmen8229

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    Ok, I'm not trying to start a war about circumcision here as that has been covered elsewhere in this forum ad nauseam. What I would like to hear is the experience of any uncircumcised males in the US, especially in the midwest.

    Were you self-conscious? Were girls turned off or unwilling? Were you asked about it or teased? etc etc

    Just considering the consequences for my own future children and would greatly appreciate input from those who lived it.
     
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    I'm a cut male, and I've dated an uncut guy before. Pretty unusual, the difference between a foreskin and a lack of it, but I'm an admirably different guy, who handles prettymuch everything easily.
     
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    well to begin with I am not from the US, and I am uncut. Being natural has its ups and downs. I love the way my willie looks and to be honest I wouldn't wanna see it any other way. If something is given to you by nature why take it away?
    I have a great sex life with my lady and I don't think circumcising should be done!
     
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    I'm uncut,L 7" x g 5.75" but the forskin is'nt long, the tip of my head shows. I've had different responds, but all liked the way it would side in with out pulling, others that wanted to try anal liked the way it didn't pull also, so I could long stroke it. Most of the 40 women I've been with haven't had uncut before, U think 4 had.
     
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    Growing up in my teens it seemed to be a big deal if you were "uncut" I never disclosed it to any of my friends but felt If I did I would likely get teased or whatever. I remember meeting a girl at a party in high school and we went off by ourselves for some privacy, and I recall having to tell her I was "uncut" since she was wanting to give me a blow-job. She didn't seem to mind, although I think my cock was her first "uncut" that she had seen since she really took time to examine me :D

    I actually thought a few times in my late teens going to my doctor and asking for a adult circumcision since I felt like it was something that I would be embarrassed about for years to come..or at least had to explain to women I was with before hand. Talk about a mood killer.

    How mistaken could I have been, so many women love the uncut version.

    I am so glad that I did not make that visit to the doctor.

    At 30, I am for anti-circumcision.

    There also has been some consequences to circumcision that I was not aware of and that things can go wrong, such is the cases in links posted below:

    David Reimer case: CBC News Indepth: David Reimer

    Boy dies from circumcision:
    Ontario boy dies after complications from circumcision

    Hope you make a informed decision. I am sure you will since your getting peoples opinions on things. Good luck.
     
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    I was extremely self-conscious when I was young. I always knew I was different, and shyed away from being naked in front of other kids because I was afraid of being teased.

    But here's the thing: I have never been teased about being uncut. Not once. Ever. I have been asked about it, sure. Men are curious. Women are unsure of how to work with it sometimes. But the attention I've received for it has never been negative. It's always been an exotic attraction to those who have commented on it.

    (Of course, being larger probably helps with that.)
     
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    You may want to consider the age of respondents that had criticism when they were growing up. Today in the U.S. the circumcision rate is down to 50%. Those that were intact were often considered to be lower class because they were to poor to afford circumcisions.

    Circumstances are different today, especially with the lower circumcision rates. The social implications are actually reversing - especially in most other countries were routine circumcision has been discontinued. Your future son(s) can always decide to be circumcised but currently it is impossible to completely reverse a circumcision. After all, it will be his penis, not yours.
     
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    Thinking about your kids being intact or cut when you don't have any is odd.
     
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    my wife is pregnant with our first son. thanks for your concern....
     
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    Ok, but the rate info for the midwest of the US indicates 70-80% cut.
     
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    Thanks for all the responses. Anyone else want to share their experience with this? I know its a part of the body, an infant can't choose, etc. But if it is going to cause mental anguish or social anxiety, I would like to know about it to make an informed choice.
     
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    That may be, but to me that is still not an acceptable reason to alter your son's body. An informed decision is understanding how the intact penis is meant to function - not statistics on what other people are doing. The rest of the world (with just a few exceptions) is moving to the natural intact state because we now understand the anatomy of the penis and the function of the foreskin. (Not including circumcision for religious reasons - that is a tougher one).
     
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    Not sure about midwest, but in the west at least half of the younger guys I see are uncut. Don't risk giving your son unattractive scarring or other irrevocable harm from an unnecessary circ.
     
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    One of my uncut friends has no shortage of women who want to sleep with him. He's overweight, moderately fun to be around, not super good looking, but women dig his penis. A couple of them have literally said that the fact that he is uncut keeps them coming back for more.
     
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    Said this before - God doesn't make any junk! Nature knows best.
     
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    I used to be uncut, lived in LA and NY, always felt out of place, especially since all the guys I had sex with were cut, and those that weren't were foreigners.....took care of that and its great!
     
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    Congrats to you and your wife on your first child. I don't typically post here very often, but this thread caught my eye. I wanted to let you know that I recently got married; we currently also live in the Midwest. We have had "the talk" about circumcising any future son(s) we might have. And we decided to leave them all intact and let them make the decision should they so choose when they are adults. They might want to actually have a foreskin and we want them to at least have that opportunity. As mentioned above the rates are dropping because our generation (I turn 30 this year) is seeing things a lot differently. I think if the majority of folks our age don't circumcise, then it will eventually become the socially-accepted norm, just as it is in Europe and other industrialized nations. As such, there won't be the anxiety or the problems with being "different".....because it won't be the case.

    On another note, I have been working on restoring myself for about the last three years. Suffice to say that it is a *very* slow, tedious process, and I'm not really progressing as much as I thought I would. But I stick with it because I can see the differences. The first was how the hard dried covering came off the glans, resulting in a smooth shiny surface underneath which is amazing to see and that I had no idea was there. My erections are also more comfortable and not has tight.
     
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    Hey Sparky28!
     
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    Fortunately for me, a midwesterner, my parents did not have me circumcised. One other kid in the locker room was intact, too, but I never felt self-conscious about having a foreskin, and none of the other kids said anything about it.
    Knowing what we do about foreskins and their function, it is a mystery why any parents would subject their baby boy to this painful and unnecessary surgery. Ultimately the foreskin exists for one purpose and one purpose only--good sex. For the individual and his partners. Why diminish that? I love my foreskin, and so have my partners. Baby boys should be able to grow up to love and cherish their foreskins, too, and enjoy sex to its fullest.
     
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    Born in Iowa. That is about the most Midwest State that you can be born.

    Never had a problem in the Junior high or High School Locker Room before or after gym.

    We did strip down to the skin and actually took showers.

    I was teased a bit, but that was because of my size. I was larger than the normal kid in school.

    Keep your Sons intact. They will be grateful for that. Besides that, our insurance may soon decide to drop coverage for this un needed procedures.

    Congratulations.
     
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    As a child I was very self conscious and kind of stayed off in a corner in the locker rooms so that it did not become a topic of discussion. Never with any of the women I have ever been with has it been a issue. Everything works and works fine. My sons who have been circumcised kind of think it is weird that I am not circumcised. One has said he is glad that he was circumcised. I went to the urologist yesterday. I was in the room when he was dictating his report to my primary care physician. He thought it was of special note to tell my primary care physician that I was not circumcised. I don't know why he thought it was such a big deal. I am glad that I am not. It kind of pissed me off, but then I didn't like him handling my junk and sticking his arm up my ass either.
     
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    Thanks for your response. I have a question for you, though (feel free to ignore): If you like being intact, why did you decide to cut your sons?
     
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    Forgot to mention in my previous post on this topic that you can always have a father - son discussion at the appropriate age (dependent on your kid - you will know when the time is right) and discuss why he is different that most other kids. Explain that you have given him an option that other kids did not get and that your belief is that as an adult he will probably want to keep his foreskin. You can make him feel good about the difference.
     
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    The foreskin isn't just a bit of worthless skin. No, it has veins in it and is obviously meant to be there as all guys have it at birth.

    I'm un-circumcised, and I think it would be horror to wake up without my foreskin because it seems totally approriate to have it.

    When people talk about foreskin problems, they have listened to scare stories. It's all bullshit, unless someone has a severe medical issue that isn't meant to normally happen. The foreskin is easy to pull back. It's just part of the penis that covers the glans, like a hood.

    All this crazy talk acting like foreskins are disgusting is crazy. It's just propaganda scare tactics.

    People who live in countries where circumcision is normal, have created all these myths about foreskins. The foreskin isn't a deformity, a problem, something stange. It's all natural, all good, and nothing to be scared of. If there was common sense around the subject, people would be horrified to think that baby boys foreskins are cut off at birth.

    Any anti-foreskin nonsense needs to stop. The medical community think they know better than mother nature. They don't, the whole circumcision thing is based on ignorance and fear.
     
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    I am in the southeast... growing up there were more uncuts (it seemed about 50/50), I remember once feeling self concious and trying to pull my skin back (big mistake, got hard and I am an 'anteater dick'- I stay covered and have overhang when hard and soft)... so that nixed that...

    I am from a family of uncut men (pop, grandpop, brother, nephew, 3 sons)- my sons (all grown) and I have talked about it before, my twin sons never had 'problems' being twins...who is going to tease 2, not 1, guy? my youngest is very well endowed and a bit shy about it, so his hesitance might be for twofold reasons.

    I have had guys look at my dick, but not sure if its due to size or foreskin. If I see an odd look I have actually addressed by saying I am uncircumcised. I do have to say I have had quite a few stares when I wash it (peel it back, keep it clean!) but again is that due to size for foreskin?

    oh, my wife did kiddingly suggest we cut one and not hte other to tell them apart, but then realized one might grow up and write a book (my wife had a very wry sense of humor)

    hope that helped in some way?
     
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    Really dunno why they make such a big fuss about being uncut in America. In the UK hardly anybody is cut, when we found out somebody in our class was cut there was a few jokes said but after about 30 minutes it just died. Nobody really cared, I can't imagine anybody I knew in school teasing constantly because of your dick looks like. A size joke is usually normal
     
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    A lot of it has to do about role models. If all the guys at school you look up to, are taller, stronger etc are cut and you are uncut, you will feel self conscious.

    If you have a bigger dick than others, then the presence of a "unique" foreskin isn't bad because in the end, you feel pourd about having a bigger dick than others.

    If you are taller, stronger and better at sports then most, then you tend to be self confident and you know that others look up to you, so you are not self conscious about having a foreskin.

    In uncut courtries, I suspect a very similar thing happens, except instead of "cut/uncut", it is more about foreskin length, and whether one can leave foreksin retracted in shower or not. Generally, tghe taller guys tend to have shorter foremksin and can leave glans exposed in shower, while the smaller guys have longer skins and can't.

    Like it or not, boys/teenagers can easyly be triggered into a self conscious issue about their penis.

    And back in the heydays of circumcision, the short lived pain from a baby circ is nothing compared to the self conscious issues of being the only uncut at school.

    In this thread, the folks who mention that being uncut was not a problem seem to have had a large penis which gave them the self confidence to not worry about foreskin.
     
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    I would have to disagree

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    I appreciate your insight--were you an uncut teenage male in America? Your post didn't mention whether you were or not. I would like to know if you are speaking from personal experience on this issue.
     
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