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Oh my god!! Now I'm even more confused. Why would it be the parent who DOESN'T want to inflict that pain on their child who is the object of abuse?!?!?!

Oh my god!!!!! just saw the video!! Are u fck crazy? Why do such a thing to my son??
The foreskin is there for a reason otherwise we would be born without it!!!!

As for matters of culture as a previous guy said, its a matter of culture too in India to burn the wife alive with her husband after he dies but i dont think u agree on that are you?
 

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Why so many respondents from European countries which are about the size of my driveway think that a current fad in Europe is of any interest to Americans is just one of those little quirks of this board.

Are you implying that our not cutting our sons is a "current fad"? Because as far as I'm aware, rather than be a fad it is just the way it has always been.

Incidentally, I hadn't realised this was a dicussion open only to people in the USA. If you lived here you'd be termed a 'little Englander' what is the American alternative?
 

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Well this the Large Penis support group and during circumscission, anywhere from 10% to up to 40% of the child's penile skin is actually removed along with the foreskin. That means that being cut could possibly have an adverse effect on how the penis grows during development, resulting in a much smaller penis. Most men with large penises have excellent circumscissions with ample foreskin to wank their big dicks up and down with, it is NOT a coincidence. I was brutally cut as a child and have the tightest foreskin in the WORLD (exagerration)! I cannot recieve handjobs, cannot really wack off my own dick and get chafed like a MF if I freeball with jeans on. The only thing good is that I can sidestep most minor STD's with having absolutely no foreskin, other than that, it's been a fucking horrible thing!
 

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Circumcision is child abuse.

My cock is beautiful thank you very much :smile:

I would not resort to commenting on the individual aesthetics of cut or uncut penises. Why do people resort to name calling, is it jealousy or insecurity?

If you aren't happy with what you were born with (foreskin included) then there is a problem.
 

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Here in the US of A it's a personal choice, the only difficulty being that the person primarily involved isn't yet in a position to make the choice.
PRECISELY !!!!!!!
As Paul says ''Circumcision is child abuse''. Print that on your next t-shirt!
As for your ''ugly'' comment there are far more comments in the galleries disagreeing with you. :tongue:
 

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If you are not happy with what your born with then you should be the one to change it. When I grew up I was one of the only uncut kids in school so yes I was different but I didn't get any negative remarks about it. As it turns out most of my friends wish they were not cut. The only thing I wish I had done is talked to siblings before the had all my nephews cut. Some of them have said they would have like to have a choice. If and when I have kids it will be their choice not mine.
 

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But speaking of personal choice, I've learned something from the LPSG gallery - those uncut hoses are U G L Y. I say, give me the cut ones - or I would say that were it not for that 100% Straight thing.
I feel just the opposite. Can't look at the cut ones without seeing damaged goods--including my own.

Very unlikely you would have made this choice yourself, or think the way you do if you were born almost anywhere else.
 

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Circumcision is child abuse.

My cock is beautiful thank you very much :smile:

I would not resort to commenting on the individual aesthetics of cut or uncut penises. Why do people resort to name calling, is it jealousy or insecurity?

If you aren't happy with what you were born with (foreskin included) then there is a problem.


No disagreement here.

Agreed! Yours is quite nice too, Mr. Tall.

*goes looking in the gallery some more*
 

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The decision was yours to take and you did.
Essentially it is no ones business but yours and your son(s)
Everyone is teased about something.
All the other reasons are just crap and this is coming from a guy who is circumcised.
Im ok with being and I would be just as ok not being.
Other helpful people can do whatever they choose to do.
It is probably one of the most personal decisions there is to make and you made it so tell them to fuck right off!
 

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I'm sorry to say and I'm sure I'm going to get jumped on for this post, but that is just HOW IT IS here.

Its the COMPLETE OPPOSITE. And the truth is here, most people enjoy and love the look of a cut cock.

So change isn't possible? What's your point?

How can a mass of scar tissue ever be attractive? Do you cut up your face too because of your attraction to scars?
 

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So change isn't possible? What's your point?

How can a mass of scar tissue ever be attractive? Do you cut up your face too because of your attraction to scars?
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Whats my point? My point is the cut look is widespread here and the norm, just as overseas etc maybe really tight jeans, pale skin, mohawks, skinny builds, and not showering daily is the norm. Apparently our culture seems to think a "mass of scar tissue" is attractive, being that most people here laugh at uncut dudes. I'm not trying to start an argument over this cut/uncut shit, I don't talk shit about people who do not get cut.

yeah ok, anyway, I have noticed something common around here. Those who are uncut seem to have a serious problem with those who are cut and talk down like its this horrible, mutilation, blah blah. You guys are actually really condescending about it like I should be ashamed of my cock. I have a beautiful cock. So do many others, cut, uncut. Sometimes it makes me think maybe YOU are insecure about having that hood, otherwise why belittle those who choose to prefer the clean cut look that is most common in our culture? Are we supposed to be ashamed of our cocks because they conform to what our culture and society has been and is still doing?

And you know what motherfucker, now that you brought it up, I do have scars on my face. I broke my neck and lost part of my ear in a car accident two years ago and have extensive scars on my ear, neck, and part of my face. I didn't ask the accident to happen, I didn't ask for the scars. But they are part of who I am And YES, the women love it. They say it gives me character. I think it gives my cock character too.
 

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I'm cut and am very comfortable with that. I have no issues or regrets about not remaining "prepuce intacta".

True, I didn't have a say in the matter, but I was a newborn infant at the time and couldn't have raised any objections even if I wanted to.

How you handle the circumcision of your own children is your business and no one else's. It's a matter of choice solely for and between the parents. Your newborn baby isn't likely to care. Whatever you decide the kid will have to live with until or unless he decides to do something about it as an adult (assuming they've been left uncircumcised). For healthy males, this should be a non-issue either way, I think.

As a gay male, I've seen many penises. I personally find cut cocks very attractive, mostly because I live in the US and most all of my male family members are cut too, so it's what I'm most used to. However, as long as an uncircumcised dick is kept clean--and I know you've gotten shit about this point, and I'm sorry, but I do have to beg to differ that uncut dicks do have a more likely tendency towards unpleasant odor or "smegma" if not cleaned properly (and if you'll excuse my crassness, unless you're sucking yourself off, you really can't appreciate how your dick smells, so you have to go with what the person whose face or mouth it's in tells you)--then I can't imagine anyone having any issues with it. I'm sure your male children will have no problems getting laid whether they're cut or uncut. That will hardly be the deciding factor.

And as to all the flack you've gotten from other people for not having them circumcised, tell them to have the common courtesy to respect the decision you've made for your children in that regard, and to mind their own business. If that fails, then telling them to "Fuck off" usually works wonders and nips the BS right in the bud.
 

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Neither of you guys would have chosen to be cut as adults, just like you don't choose to be in a car wreck.

Where do you get off saying that a newborn infant is not likely to care? He protests in the only way he can.

My body, my rights. It doesn't get more basic than that.
 

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Neither of you guys would have chosen to be cut as adults, just like you don't choose to be in a car wreck.

I may not chose to be cut as an adult but I would have been pissed off at my parents if they had left me uncut while I was growing up. There are somethings a parent or father is supposed to do that may be in the best interest of his baby who is helpless. This all reminds me of the last few NIP/TUCK episodes, anyone here watch that? The plastic surgeons newborn son is born with a rare disease where his fingers are stuck together like a claw, and the father wants to have corrective surgery while the baby is young so that the baby will grow up and have "normal" hands and No one will look down upon him for being differnt. Then this little midget Marlo comes around and does his best to talk them out of it giving the same hoopla that everyone here gives about a baby being cut.

If my kid is going to be born a conjoined or 'siamese' twin, I will make a decision based on his better interest to do a surgery to help seperate them, instead of them going around life as a side show act. If things are still the same when I have a baby I know he will be glad that he is cut. However, like I said I have not thought enough about it to make a decision but based on where and how I grew up I am greatful I was cut.
 

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Whats my point? My point is the cut look is widespread here and the norm, just as overseas etc maybe really tight jeans, pale skin, mohawks, skinny dudes is the norm. Apparently our culture seems to think a "mass of scar tissue" is attractive, being that most people here laugh at uncut dudes. I'm not trying to start an argument over this cut/uncut shit, I don't talk shit about people who do not get cut.

Well, first off, you are sounding a little argumentative, but in all honesty that doesn't bother me. Arguments are good things. They can lead to greater understanding. I am guessing that you are an adult and possibly over 25, which is my age. Things are changing, especially in the northeast and on the west coast where circumcision rates are dropping rapidly as the AMA (and pediatricians) have gotten more and more neutral on the subject. I don't know anyone that laughs at uncut men, but I do know that some people prefer the look of a cut penis. With that said, I never thought I'd like an uncut penis, but some of the hottest sex I've ever had was with a man that was uncut and had a gorgeous cock. I just had to get used to the look of it (which didn't take long). I'm hoping as it becomes more common, women and men will get used to the look of an uncut penis and not be freaked out just because it looks different.

However, as long as an uncircumcised dick is kept clean--and I know you've gotten shit about this point, and I'm sorry, but I do have to beg to differ that uncut dicks do have a more likely tendency towards unpleasant odor or "smegma" if not cleaned properly (and if you'll excuse my crassness, unless you're sucking yourself off, you really can't appreciate how your dick smells, so you have to go with what the person whose face or mouth it's in tells you)--then I can't imagine anyone having any issues with it.

I didn't quote most of your post, but I appreciate your sentiments. I plan to teach my son how to clean his penis just like his teeth, hair, behind the ears, asscrack, etc. Also, I've been with some cut guys that have just plain nasty smegma on their dicks and around their balls, especially ones that don't trim up their pubes. I think all men need to think of their sex partners and clean the boys up with soap and water.

Where do you get off saying that a newborn infant is not likely to care? He protests in the only way he can.


Hearing the neighboring baby get cut was awful for me. It pretty much sealed my decision. Coming out into the world from the womb is hard enough, but giving my newborn son a surgical procedure with no anaesthetic or pain meds was not something I could do. Also I was terrified of something going wrong or an infection on the wound or something. Circumcision is a choice that my son will be able to make as a consenting adult. You can get circumcised later in life with anaesthetic and take pain pills for the week it hurts, but it is nearly impossible to restore your foreskin. To me, deciding to do something irreversible seemed illogical.

I do appreciate the diverse opinions here... and you all have been very wonderful in giving me your input and personal stories.

Snooz
 

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Again, my point is simply that it is the parent's choice and their decision alone to make. Period.

Snoozen shouldn't be given greif over what she and her husband have decided for their kids when it comes to circumcision. I don't have to like it, you don't have to like it, and the kid doesn't even have to like it. I didn't ask to be circumcised. It happened (for whatever the reason) and I'm fine with that. I don't feel mutilated or abused, or angry at my parents because of it--neither should I be if I were left uncut. I didn't ask to be born either, so does that give me the right to persecute my parents if my life turned out crappy?

In this regard, I think, no one has a right to beat her up for what she's decided is in the best interest of her newborn. Cut or uncut, most kids grow up and get over it. If foreskin (either the existence or lack thereof) is the only thing a man has to worry about in this life, we should all be so lucky!
 

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Wow is that true, that most men in the US are cut? I thought it was just jews.

Personally, I think its child abuse.

As for women thinking uncut cocks are ugly.. how do they feel about female genital mutiliation?