I'm cut and am very comfortable with that. I have no issues or regrets about not remaining "prepuce intacta".
True, I didn't have a say in the matter, but I was a newborn infant at the time and couldn't have raised any objections even if I wanted to.
How you handle the circumcision of your own children is your business and no one else's. It's a matter of choice solely for and between the parents. Your newborn baby isn't likely to care. Whatever you decide the kid will have to live with until or unless he decides to do something about it as an adult (assuming they've been left uncircumcised). For healthy males, this should be a non-issue either way, I think.
As a gay male, I've seen many penises. I personally find cut cocks very attractive, mostly because I live in the US and most all of my male family members are cut too, so it's what I'm most used to. However, as long as an uncircumcised dick is kept clean--and I know you've gotten shit about this point, and I'm sorry, but I do have to beg to differ that uncut dicks do have a more likely tendency towards unpleasant odor or "smegma" if not cleaned properly (and if you'll excuse my crassness, unless you're sucking yourself off, you really can't appreciate how your dick smells, so you have to go with what the person whose face or mouth it's in tells you)--then I can't imagine anyone having any issues with it. I'm sure your male children will have no problems getting laid whether they're cut or uncut. That will hardly be the deciding factor.
And as to all the flack you've gotten from other people for not having them circumcised, tell them to have the common courtesy to respect the decision you've made for your children in that regard, and to mind their own business. If that fails, then telling them to "Fuck off" usually works wonders and nips the BS right in the bud.